but we were forcefed STEM at every turn by school, media, and most importantly, our parents. It's where the money is, and not money for money's sake, but money for job and financial security. Clearly, the siren song was hard to resist, not just for me, but for droves of people my age.
Great post that I feel like is more relevant than ever. I don't regret my decision in pursuing CS because I'm quite passionate for it, but I know a few peers that regret it (one of which switched to another college 3 years into his Bachelor's).
There's definitely a lot of misleading that happens when people talk about tech jobs. One of the first lectures in my college was the professor praising people for choosing CS, assuring them it's the right choice, then showing us a graph of average salaries in the industry. "You see, web developers earn $110K per year! Software engineers a little more so!". It also came with more talk about how companies are always on the lookout for talent and finding a job should be super easy compared to other fields.
Maybe that was the case ~10 years ago, but it certainly doesn't seem to be now. I hope that more instructors would be more honest that CS is not for everyone, it's a long and difficult journey that not everyone would want to put up with. It's also not as lucrative and stable as some people romanticize it to be. Just my $0.02.
Obsessive and narcissistic because there are many duplicate communities and it's frustrating to try and find out which ones to use? Okay...
It just sounds like you didn't read the post and made up a narrative in your head about what it's about.