I'd say your sexuality is "I like traditionally feminine people".
this post was submitted on 16 May 2025
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Straight = opposite sex
Gay = same sex
Bi = both sexes
You’d be bi.
This is why I don't like the IA+ LGBTQIA+. Q was a good stopping point because queer is such a great way of saying "it's complicated but not straight."
Queer is a nice big tent we can all get under instead of performative labeling or over complication.
I wish people didn't hyperfixate on labels so much these days. I feel like it causes more problems than it solves in terms of creating an identity someone needs to stick to instead of letting people just be themselves.
Agreed.
The desire to subdivide ourselves appears to have been very beneficial to the ruling class in many ways.
Agreed, fuck who you like and who wants to fuck you, why must something as complex and messy as your slice of humanity be categorized?
Probably bisexual, but you've got a type.
Yeah. Let’s not overcomplicate it. They’re bi with a preference for femininity.
You're horny.
labels are useless last a certain point. you're you and that's all that matters.
if you absolutely need to pick a label (for a doctor's form or whatever) bi would be what I would choose since what they're really asking there is what genders do you sleep with.
If you're looking for a technical term, you would fall under gynosexual. But even with the term: only you can truly define your own sexuality.
Yeah gynosexual or gynephilic is how I describe myself
Sounds like bi with a femme preference
I’d say I generally lean the same way, and I consider myself bi.
I think trying to define it is fairly pointless. We love what we love and we lust what we lust. Rather than defining it, I wish we could all just accept that and stop hating people for having different preferences.
Yep, but sometimes you want to communicate about your preferences, and then you need understandable terminology. Giving names to phenomena is generally useful. Discussing things is useful. Understanding natural diversity is great and important.
Fair point but I'm not sure that naming every permutation is possible. We might be better off trying to make do with charts or something.
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Yep. We don't give names for people who like red and their second favourite colour is yellow.
Just be yourself, be kind to others and move on.
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Fucked if I know the new terms but for my entire 20+ years of sexually active life, you would be classified as bi. But like I said or implied, Im old as fuck and have no clue what the currently accepted term may be. If I need to know the new sexuality/gender terms then im fucking a woman who is way too young than I should be fucking with. Thats a statement of the types of people who live in my area and not a blanket statement that no older individuals use current sexuality identities.
Sapphic, perhaps.
From Fetlife's Kinktionary:
Finsexual: Usually refers to a person who is attracted to femininity regardless of a person’s gender identity. Is sometimes considered more inclusive than Gynesexual (as the prefix "gyne" focuses on female anatomy).
Labels exist to describe what is. You don't need to fit neatly into a category. You like who you like, and you shouldn't apologize for it.
Like for me, I'm attracted to the late Andre Braugher portraying the gay man Captain Holt on Brooklyn 99 when he's pretending to be straight and describing his fictitious partner's heavy breasts. Nothing sexier than that, but the brain trust at Oxford hasn't come up with a word for that one yet.
Oh fuck you! I was not prepared to learn one of my favorite sitcom characters is dead. Fuck me, now I gotta Google how he passed.
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Holt talking about thigh gap is hilarious.
"There's nothing more intoxicating than the clear absence of a penis."
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Find your limitation, become a label.
Depending on your gender you're heteroflexible or homoflexible
which are 2 types of bi
Bi but with a type?
sounds like labels just aren't that useful to you
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