Actual users, myself included. Yes, I am on federated apps (here, mastodon, "bluesky", pixelfed, loops, peertube) but frankly the majority of people, and the content I consume, aren't.
小红书 has been a blessing. I've been learning Chinese before this but didn't really have a place to practice communication. Everyone on the app has been extremely friendly and welcoming of the incoming Americans. I've noticed the fediverse has been very quick to judge with no actual experience with the app (not targeting you)
Is it for everyone? No. But I've genuinely been enjoying my time there communicating with Chinese citizens.
Selfhost ftw