AnarchistArtificer

Yeah, that kind of mocking is a direct attack at me, and I honestly like it because I feel like my weird achievement hunting is definitely mockable (especially because I already know how ridiculous I am and thus will not change in this respect)

"*Only share your account info with someone you absolutely trust. It's always a risk to share credentials but use your best judgement."

As someone who is estranged from my blood family, it's interesting to me how this category of people who I would feel comfortable sharing my credentials with maps pretty well onto who I would consider to be my found family

"You can be the juiciest, ripest peach in the world, but some people just funny like peaches."

"Hard work beats talent when talent doesn't work hard"

That's interesting, I hadn't thought about things in those terms before. I am wondering whether part of why the right seem to be so good at recuperation is that the right (in particular, fascists) benefit from capitalist support. Money and media have a lot of power; I weep for the people who were indoctrinated to hatred to the extent that they voted against their own interests. The scales are tipped in the right's favour in that regard. What do you think?

(I haven't read Society of the Spectacle yet, in case that addresses some of what I'm saying)

Tangentially related, but I'm reminded of this quote from Disco Elysium:

"Capital has the ability to subsume all critiques into itself. Even those who critique capital end up reinforcing it instead."

Thanks for sharing that article. I actually haven't heard of Mike Davis before, but following this article, I am now reading one of his essays.

Not so much advice as a selfish request: please try to stay with us. I mean that both figuratively (i.e. mentally checking out and becoming hollow) and literally (i.e. existing in this world). It's a selfish request because though I'm not even American, I am one of the countless people who are scared shitless today. I don't know how we will make it through this, but I know I can't do this on my own.

If you're here, scared with me, then I am not alone, and neither are you. It's a bit trite, but it helps me somewhat.

The modern world runs on plausible deniability, especially the tech world

I have to believe in a future where people look back on this from a world with less hatred in it than it currently has. I want to give the perpetrators of hate as little plausible deniability as possible.

I have to believe that even though looking back on history didn't seem to help us avoid this situation, that there will be people in the future who are wiser and empowered to make better choices for them and their communities.

It's a fantasy, and I honestly don't care if it's unrealistic. It's what I need to believe to keep going. I need to believe there can be something better after this, regardless of whether I'll get to experience it.

I know I'm just one person, but your experiences are important and imo, necessary for women's liberation (and human liberation more generally). I'm not going to say "you should share your experiences" because I get how exhausting it is to be challenged on basic shit all the time and that means commenting can be akin to self harm if overdone. I guess I'm just trying to expand that 1% of non-assholes into a larger percentage.

I say this as a cis woman whose feminism has gotten a hell of a lot more intersectional in recent years, in part due to trans friends. Knowing trans women in particular has helped me to feel more at home and happy in my own gender (femininity and its relationship with womanhood is complicated). Having lived as a guy for a chunk of your life no doubt means that your lived experience (especially with respect to gender) is messy and complex, but that's great, because the world is messy and complex. At least, it would be great, if more people were open to listening to you when you share. I'm sorry that you have to do the cost:benefit analysis before commenting — that part is something I can relate to.

It does help, thank you.

I agree that it's not quite the same, and I'm finding it real interesting to ponder how that happens.

This comic and this comment section have been pretty thought provoking. (Heads up, this is overly abstract speculation from here): For example, here's a mathsy diagram This is a commutative diagram, and I'm not at the level of being able to explain it properly, but part of it is the idea of equivalence, the fact that there's two routes from A to D that are equivalent.

I'm thinking about this sort of analogous to what we're seeing in the comic and these comments. Like, the base experiences we're talking about (being spoken over when you're trying to share your experiences, for example) are fundamentally shared experiences, but the manner of experiencing them is different, because it's coloured by our own positionality (of which gender is a big part of). I think sometimes though, it's like discussions don't work because we get separated — some of us at B, and some at C. Like, it does matter that our experiences are different, but also, there's a sense in which it doesn't, because we need to head to the same place anyway.

I don't know what converging on D would be in this analogy. Solidarity perhaps? Which would, I suppose, involve recognising that the route you're on is different to the route other people are on, and that it's possible to be heading to the same place. I'm not sure, this is quite abstract, but you said the word "meta" and that seemed to catalyse this thought, so here's this comment. You're welcome/my apologies