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[–] [email protected] 24 points 4 days ago (1 children)

The world actually did end in 2012.

This is hell.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

"This is the best timeline" joke? Anyone?

[–] [email protected] 21 points 4 days ago (4 children)

Nuclear energy is currently the best way to achieve energetic independence until we find out how to maintain a fusion core running for more than 20 minute.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Energetic independence

Speaking as an American? Energetic Independence From who? The United States and Canada have big fossil fuel reserves. The US is even the biggest exporter of them. And I guess the rest of the West can count on Australian and Canadian fossil fuel exports. If anyone needs fossil fuel independence its China. And the west would profit from a slower transition to nuclear power there, as this allows to apply more external pressure by increasing oil prices.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Solar started to beat out nuclear in terms of LCOE a few years ago. We should continue to operate all of our current nuclear reactors as long as it is safe to do so, but planning new builds today given how cheap solar is just doesnt make sense.

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[–] [email protected] 100 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (8 children)

All billionaires are evil people that decide to accumulate wealth instead of distributing the surplus and living off enough to not have to worry about the future. All. Of. Them.

Yes, even Taylor Swift and Gabe Newell. They have enough money that they could set 100m aside, live off that and charge break-even prices for their products so more people could enjoy them or they could charge the same thing and redirect their share of the profits into charities, they choose not to.

[–] [email protected] 44 points 6 days ago (6 children)

I'm a Taylor Swift fan (not a Swifty) but I'm 100% with you.

I pirate her music (tbf all music). I've gotten into heated arguments on Lemmy on how she's one of the "good" ones.

No such thing as a good billionaire.

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[–] [email protected] 48 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (5 children)

I'm so out of shape right now, it'll probably be whichever one I try to climb next.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 4 days ago

First-past-the-post voting should be replaced so people can vote outside the two party system with no spoiler effect.

Electoral Reform Videos

First Past The Post voting (What most states use now)

Videos on alternative electoral systems

STAR voting

Alternative vote

Ranked Choice voting

Range Voting

Single Transferable Vote

Mixed Member Proportional representation

[–] [email protected] 19 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Vinyl sounds shit. It reintroduces all the issues digital audio solved decades ago. I have heard vinyl rips made with equipment that costs as much as a new bmw and it has constant and frequent quality issues like static. It also has to downgrade audio sometimes to prevent the needle from physically flying out. It is impossible for vinyl to sound as good as the digital master or flac version of it that it was made from. It WILL always sound worse even thanks to the fact that physical world is very flawed and imprecise.

People arguing otherwise are either deaf or need to look in the mirror and accept the fact that they enjoy vinyl for the experience not the sound quality.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Meh, the under lying extra noise is what those people are looking for and not the purity of the sound. Which supposedly ties back to the inherent sound of live music which isn't cleaned up digitally.

It's all potatoes no matter which kind of audiophile a person is.

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[–] [email protected] 33 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Depending on how the next four years go, probably Capitol.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 days ago (11 children)

DND is not a good universal game system. It's pretty good at being DND, but that's a particular beast that's mostly about resource management.

You can definitely use it for a game about social intrigue, or horror, or modern day anything, but it's not really good at any of that. Like using a hammer to put screws in, you'll probably get something done, and if you're hanging with your friends you'll probably have a good time. But it's a weird tool to reach for.

Personally, I don't think the core of the rules system is very good at all. Flat probability feels weird. Armor as all-or-nothing is weird. Hit and damage being split into two rolls is slow and weird. In the latest edition, making very few choices about your character often feels bad. Levels are a very coarse unit of growth. The magic system somehow manages to make magic not feel like magic- no wonder, no mystery, it's just safe and standardized. I could go on.

But it's mega popular and people are emotionally invested, so there's not much to be done about it. There are dozens of people playing the thousands of other games out there.

Also a lot of people have never played anything else, so their analysis and defense of it is often lacking. Like if I've only ever played baseball, and never even watched any other sports, I wouldn't feel qualified to talk about bowling. But you get people saying like "no you need to wear cleats that's a universal property of sports" when bowling comes up. Like, not every game has six stats. Not every game has attributes like that at all.

And again, if you're having fun with dnd then that's the primary goal achieved. We don't need to maximize fun and efficiency in all things all times. I just think that it would be a good experience to branch out more, even if it's scary, because that will lead to a richer experience overall.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

Completely agree, D&D is overly crunchy and I have no interest in a tedious minis wargame in the middle of my roleplaying. The Basic system that Call of Cthulhu was based on is much easier for newcomers to understand with everything being simple percentages, and the system is open-ended enough to make combat as simple or crunchy as you would like - but either way, it's such a better way to facilitate a roleplay gaming session. It's just sad that the only people I know who play tabletop RPGs are so extremely invested in the D&D intellectual property that they won't even consider anything outside of it. I could give a shit less about D&D's worldbuilding and lore, it's not what I love about roleplaying - it's about the collective story we tell and the fun we had along the way.

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[–] [email protected] 57 points 6 days ago (9 children)

American cakes, cookies, and breads have waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too much sugar. (Eating American white bread hurts my teeth.)

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[–] [email protected] 36 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Fondant isn’t icing and is cheating when making a cake. It also tastes gross.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 5 days ago (3 children)
[–] [email protected] 14 points 5 days ago (5 children)

Also those who haven't become stars.

Sex work is work.

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[–] [email protected] 59 points 6 days ago (17 children)

We should be using soap and water after popping, toilet paper alone is barbaric

[–] [email protected] 36 points 6 days ago (11 children)

Bum gun or Bidet. The humane way to toilet.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 5 days ago (7 children)

Things where better when the internet was one spot in your house. Not in your pocket at all times

Post made using Boost for mobile phone

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago (4 children)

Blessing someone for a sneeze is the most useless human interaction I know of and we should do away with it.

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[–] [email protected] 41 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (29 children)

I posted a comment on Reddit telling about how the word racism really means a person who is a subscriber to the pseudoscience that is race.

Tons of people downvoted me then reddit admins removed the content for harassment, of all things. (None of it made sense to me)

I'm sad that people still think that people are different races, and to not be racist you just have to not put one over or under another, when the crux of the problem is fundamentally that people don't get that race was made up because long ago dumb people thought that people that looked different were a literal different species but couldn't prove it so made up the word race as a subcategory in the taxonomic system, but finally scientists realized it's complete bullshit since it's impossible to define, total bullshit, wildly inconsistent, and massively harmful... and I'm sad that people there literally couldn't comprehend that, and got so mad or offended that they censured the information and thought I was arguing against the existence of systemic racism or something that only a dumb piece of shit would misinterpret.

I linked the Wikipedia page for racism which explains all of it, including history and stuff.

I was triggered for like a week trying to figure out what I said wrong, and honestly still kinda bothered.

But, that is what race is: a bigoted idea that different people are different races and shouldn't/can't interbreed. And that's the stupidest bullshit that MOST people don't understand, and I'll die on this hill, explaining that we gotta stop all being racists. Yeah, fix the problems like systemic racism, but stop thinking of people with darker or lighter skin as different - they're just warm weather humans or cold weather humans, the same way buff or skinny humans are. Fuck. We're all literally just humans, an amazing species, capable of adaptation and survival.

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[–] [email protected] 36 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Canada will NEVER be the 51st state.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Modern flip phones (e.g. Samsung Fold) are stupid and tacky and will never be as good as previous gen flip phones. Just won't. Sorry not sorry.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago

The "phones are bad and suck your life away" crowd has gotten way too big. Yes, it's easy to waste time on them, but that's just something you gotta learn, like not watching TV series all night. You're a grown up, deal with it. Also maybe you feel bad for spending all that time on your phone just because feeling bad for that feels cool? It's actually your life you can spend it however you want. You don't need to be productive or successful to be a worthy human. Be a lazy shit that plays stupid phone games while on a train to work.

[–] [email protected] 36 points 6 days ago (6 children)

God damn tomato slices in everything from hamburgers to toasted sandwiches as if everyone is supposed to like raw tomato by default is pure discrimination against the non tomato eating populace.

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[–] [email protected] 33 points 6 days ago (3 children)

Unless the post itself is a commentary, posters should put their own opinions in the comments, not the title or description.

That way they can be up/downvoted and discussed separately.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

why not both? Put it into the post and the comments?

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 5 days ago (12 children)

The Petty One: Optical Media is Bad. It has always been and always will be. We used it for as long as we did because there was no better choice. But when it came to music I went straight from tape to mp3 because I never trusted CD's, and I will continue not to trust CD's.

The Serious One That Might Ruffle Feathers: The entire school curriculum of every country should be wiped out -- And replaced with fifteen years of nothing but reading comprehension. We live in an era where information is extremely cheap but knowledge is priceless. And to go from information to knowledge, one needs to have a well developed reading ability and bullshit filter. There's no point memorising a bunch of nonsense when it is easier and faster to use technology -- We stopped doing recitations when we invented writing, you know? -- What IS important is understanding what you are seeing and recognising lies for what they are.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 5 days ago

Reading comprehension is incredibly important. Bullshit filter also sorely needed. I get very frustrated when I see people falling for obvious false information. I've been shown AI videos that are clearly fake but they believe it.

I think my favorite are conspiracy theories who won't believe something backed with like, facts, but will believe this 30 seconds tik Tok from someone they don't know quoting someone they also don't know.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 days ago

I will never play a game that needs admin elevation to run, I don't care how good it allegedly is.

I've missed out on playing several games with friends due to this stance. Star Wars: The Old Republic was the first I can remember. Marvel Rivals is the most recent.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (12 children)

Spelling and grammar matter.

At least take a stab at doing it well.

Other than speaking to people, it’s how we interact with others. It can be professionally, casually, or with friends. Friends we can be pretty informal and slap emojis all over if that’s your style. But casually, even online interaction, people should favor more formal writing until “reading the room”. Professionally there’s no excuse, IDGAF how “brilliant” someone might be and suddenly they get a pass for whatever comes down the email pipeline (unless that brilliance comes attached to some bonafide neurodivergence or something), the awful writing I’ve seen come from some “professionals” is anything but.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 5 days ago (13 children)

Fahrenheit is a perfectly cromulent unit of measure when the use case is for referencing human comfort.

The rage it incites in others on the internet is just a side benefit. It's hilariously awe-inspiring just how wound up some people get over a personal preference for a unit of measure. Mr. Fahrenheit should be proud of what he accomplished.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 days ago

Don’t debate on things we have little to no expertise/personal experience in. [insert really divisive issue here], I am not [this group of people], [other group of people], and don’t have the legal/medical/[insert other relevant thing] background to comment on this issue.

If you ignore those hot issues, you can focus on the important things that matter in life. Like what’s for breakfast tomorrow morning.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 5 days ago (1 children)

It should be illegal for vehicles so noisy that I can hear from kilometers away to drive inside cities and close to people.

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