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I myself wanted one of those remote controlled air planes. I thought that's the coolest thing ever. Once I grew up and had the money, I never bought it.

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[–] [email protected] 69 points 6 months ago (4 children)

One memory that kept popping up occasionally over the years is of my mother lending my neighbor my favorite matchbox car. By the time I'd gotten to him, he'd crushed it. I don't think he meant anything by it, and I don't have bad feelings to either one of them, I just know how much that sucked. I do remember that nobody gave a shit, and I never got it replaced.

Late last year I decided I was gonna get it back, so I've spent a few hours spread over some months when I was bored at my pc looking at matchbox size red Dodge Vipers from the 90s. Most had the wrong color, or extra decals, or the wrong wheels, etc. Eventually I found it, ordered a copy, and it got delivered about a month ago. I don't play with it, but it sits on my desk at home as a sort of fidgeting toy.

I'm sure it says some bad shit about my psyche but to me it's a nice reminder of a time when I was much happier. Maybe I should get some beyblades.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Hey just wanted to say I think it says good things about your psyche that you're being kind to you.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 months ago
[–] MajorHavoc 16 points 6 months ago

Your story is why I always donate my old matchbox cars and stuff that isn't precious to me. It might bring maximum joy sitting on someone's desk, rather than in a drawer I am ignoring.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I think this says some good shit about your psyche.

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[–] [email protected] 57 points 6 months ago (4 children)

After years of my family saying I'm too difficult to buy gifts for, and me saying, "What the hell are you talking about? Just get me LEGO!", one of my kids got the message and has been getting me LEGO sets for Christmas every year.

It might have started when I bought myself the Cinderella Castle set.

The only problem I have is I'm 53, not 13. Sitting hunched over a pile of LEGO bricks for hours leaves me in pain. I need to come up with a space where I can play without injuring myself.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 6 months ago

A standing desk is magic. You'll spend the day on your feet, playing with legos!

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Perhaps a low table or an office chair without arm rests to get a closer to waist level

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[–] ArmainAP 43 points 6 months ago

I do it all the time. Toys are super fun.

[–] [email protected] 36 points 6 months ago

I wanted a Tyco RC car as a kid. My parents actually got it for me after waiting nearly a whole year for my birthday, and it was one of the most expensive birthday gifts I'd ever received.

Turns out it uses a proprietary battery that wasn't even included in the package! We'd have to go out and buy that separately, which made the thing like 50% more expensive.

We couldn't afford that so I agreed to return the RC car and pick something else.

I've decided to boycott them for life. Stupid Tyco for running my birthday with a stupid toy that doesn't even include the battery.

[–] [email protected] 35 points 6 months ago (2 children)

The one toy I wanted more than anything as a kid was the Jurassic Park Compound.

I see them on Ebay going for $100-200, but that's just for the building itself. It'd be pretty pointless to have a big fence with no dinosaurs in it, so I'd have to buy some dinos too. And I need action figures to sit in the watchtower and watch over the dinosaurs, you gotta have that.

And then the realities of adulthood set in: I wouldn't enjoy this toy as much as I would have when I was a kid. Kid me would probably spend hours with this thing crafting big elaborate stories about wrangling dinosaurs and stuff like that. Nearly-40 me would set up the toys, make sure everyone's in cool poses, and then it would probably sit on a shelf. I'm not really sure it's worth it.

So while I'm sad I never got the toy as a kid, I think going back and buying it nowadays would be kind of an expensive hollow victory.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 months ago

My Grant figure lost his glued on hat and he always had an ugly boxy cone bead underneath 😭All I wanted was a new hat.

[–] MajorHavoc 9 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Nearly-40 me would set up the toys, make sure everyone's in cool poses, and then it would probably sit on a shelf. I'm not really sure it's worth it.

I gave in, and made that shelf, and I was pleasantly surprised how much joy it brings me. Each time I glance over, a get a little dopamine hit. It feels right that I kept a promise I made to myself when I was little.

Edit: I don't touch the shelf much, but I know that I could, and that makes me happy.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 6 months ago (4 children)

I never got that Gameboy I wanted, but that's OK, I'm made up for it using emulators years later.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Emulators were a godsend as a kid. I was lucky and had a cousin who was way into that stuff and set me up with several burned cd's with zsnes and tons of ROMS when I was around 12. I experienced so many more games than I would've otherwise!

People talk about needing the CRT filters and blah blah to have a realistic experience, heck. Sharp pixels, Save states and Fast forwarding through unskippable stuff have been part of the experience for me for 25 years! Fanmade romhacks and expansions (like for chrono trigger, which I would never have experienced without emulation) are awesome!

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago

Same here. Got one a Miyoo Mini+ and put a community OS on it and a curated set of ROMs. 10 year old me would love it!

But turns out as an adult I just don’t have much use for it. The down side of being much more in control of how I spend my own time lol

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 6 months ago (2 children)

I wanted the micro machine van that opened as a town with the little mini cars.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 months ago

Ooh I had that. Now my kids play with it. I hope you get one eventually. It’s still awesome!

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 months ago

i have that! come over and play mega man x with me and we can take turns with the micro town.

wait nvm its at (my daughters) grandmas house

[–] [email protected] 23 points 6 months ago

I always wanted one of those little cars kids can drive. Nearly 30 and almost done saving up for my first car. I’m very excited!

[–] [email protected] 22 points 6 months ago (5 children)

Not exactly a toy.

Wanted the black toyota pick up from back to the future when i first watched the movie as a kid.

Ended up buying a version of it without remembering how much i wanted that truck as a kid.

When i saw it the first time after buying my truck i thought holy shit adult me bought child me his dream vehicle without realizing it

(It was not the exact same but might as well have been)

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 6 months ago (4 children)

Nah. a 2.5 meter aircraft carrier is not really any more practical today than it was in 1986.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I wanted a Sega Genesis for Christmas one year but I already had a Super Nintendo that I played all the time and my parents didn't want to pay for another console. When I was in highschool, a used game store opened in my town. Back then game collecting was a lot cheaper than it is now, so I was able to get a Genesis for like $30 and I enjoyed it.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 6 months ago (3 children)

I had a Commodore 64 as a kid but we couldn't afford the disk drive (it was as much as the computer). I had to settle for a cassette drive. About 15 years later, I was at a garage sale and saw a C64 with disk drive but no cords. I asked the seller if it still worked. He said "For a dollar, does it matter?". Still have them.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 months ago

And the disk drive was still slow as shit. I always wanted an Apple //e and we couldn't afford it. Biggest mistake my parents ever made imo, if they'd've sprung for it I might have gotten into tech 10 years earlier and I'd be filthy rich rn.

Anyhow, I got one, with Duodisk drive and everything. I regret nothing.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 6 months ago

When the 3ds was relatively new, I saw one being sold at a garage sale for $20 bundled with Pokemon. Clearly just some old person who didn't know its value. I wanted it so bad, but my dad said no. I didn't have a game console until the Wii, and never had a handheld. I've always been a huge gamer, but I was basically forced onto PC lol.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 6 months ago (1 children)

True story. I was in a comic store and saw a statue of a character I loved as a kid. He wasn't an action figure when I was young, so technically I'd never wanted it as a kid. Anyway, I saw it and wasn't going to get it, but then I realized if I didn't buy it I'd be kicking myself for years.

I brouhgt it and it sits on my shelf. I seldom think about it, but when I do I'm happy i have it.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 months ago (1 children)

What was the character? Don't leave us hanging!

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Yes!! I bought a Lite-Brite.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 months ago (3 children)

They must be lot less bulky now right? When I was a kid they were these heavy steel boxes that got quite hot because they used an incandescent bulb.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 6 months ago (2 children)

I loved Transformers when I was a kid. My parents never worried about putting food on the table but we didn't have a lot of disposable income, so I never had the Power Wheels or the Action Figures, or whatever when I was growing up.

One day in my late 30s I realized I could just buy Optimus Prime. So I did. He's hanging out on a shelf in my office.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 months ago

Jep, I bought a Furby when I first moved out. After about 2 months it stopped working (didn't even drop it). So I cut it open, the cheapest piece of electronics I ever saw for that price tag.

Foreshadowing for what I would soon learn about the adult world in general.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 months ago (2 children)

No. I always wanted steel battalion but it's even more expensive now and I still don't have an original Xbox to play it on. If yall don't know it's a 400usd game that comes with a super big controller for a mech suit. You have to use that controller for it and if you don't eject from your mech before it explodes the game permanently deletes your save file.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 6 months ago (2 children)

I always wanted a cool Voltron toy with all the lions, but I never got one. When Lego released theirs I bought it straight away.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 6 months ago (1 children)

When a good friend had a child I bought them a big Brio set. Every kid should have Brio.

My friend and his brother both do woodworking as a hobby, they made custom track, bridges, tunnels, and rolling stock. It's now a whole room in a house. It should last a few generations.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 6 months ago

Yes, this apple puzzle. I wanted it sooo bad and I got it in my late 30s and it's awesome. And they make a bunch of other ones now. I've done the skull, shark and pirate ship too. But the apple man.. the apple.

https://3dcrystalpuzzle.com/products/apple-red

[–] [email protected] 14 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Trypticon. He unfolds into a base, and he walks in Dino mode, and he's so freaking cool.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I did. Bought myself a Traxxas Slash 4x4 and got to drive it a bit before my SO at the time took it upon herself to tell me how much of a man-child I am for wanting/owning one and it took the wind right out of my sails. Only thing I have now it a Traxxas Bandit that I have no idea if it works. Have no batteries. Sold my nice Transmitter when I was forced to sell my Slash. Don't know if I will ever get into the hobby again even though I am single now.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 months ago

Sort of. My grandparents spoiled me growing up so I had a lot of fun toys, but lost them all in a house fire in high school. I've been slowly picking up some of my favorites ever since, everything from Mighty Max to Transformers to OG Gameboy games.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 months ago

No... but thanks to emulation I could play all the games I couldn't play as a kid because we couldn't afford consoles or VGA colour screens.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

Oh yeah! I wanted a small RC helicopter, quite simple thing, never got one. I remembered that a few years ago & really got into pov drones. Another consideration was the factual impossibility for me to get a real pilots licence. So I took the cheap road. My wife's opinion may vary.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 months ago

I did get one. You know how drones have a buttload of sensors and computers to make them fly level and straight? Well what RC helicopters do instead of technology, is that they crash. A lot.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 months ago

I just want to say thank you to OP. I am going out and treating myself to all the stuff little me wanted

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 months ago

yes. do it, op. make younger you proud.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 months ago

I bought a ton of ps1 , ps2 and ps3 games recently that I couldn't afford before. Also I buy my son Lego sets he too young to build himself and make them for him because I find it really fun .

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 months ago

Why grow up otherwise? Also, why grow up samewise?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (7 children)

Yes

Other than that I mostly got all the things I wanted because I didn't really want much. The only expensive toy I wanted was a proper RC car and a PC but I bought those both with my own money that I had saved. I was a frugal kid.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago (2 children)

I always wanted the Decepticon Soundwave and all the tapes. I wound up getting a masterpiece of him and all his tapes. Got him set up on a shelf in my room.

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