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[–] [email protected] 43 points 9 months ago (21 children)

I'm a bit confused by this.

Does this imply that the human race is drastically more sexually fluid than most species when allowed to be without oppression? Or that the culture gen z has grown up in helps cultivate a more fluid preference?

I grew up in the 80s, so I'm trying to understand, but it's tough meshing statements like this with my experiences.

Please don't misunderstand this post as disapproval. Just confusion.

[–] [email protected] 146 points 9 months ago (7 children)
[–] [email protected] 87 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Amazing what not punishing things does

[–] [email protected] 19 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I've got an older bro who is ambidextrous due to not being allowed to be left-handed in kindergarten (and beyond). He got held back due to "developmental" problems. I can't believe the teachers and principal were so dumb that they couldn't connect the dots as to what was really going on.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I'm cross dominant. I do some things left handed, some things right handed, and a select few I can do with either. Elementary school was weird. My teachers couldn't comprehend that I write with my right hand but use scissors with my left. For years I was forced to use right handed scissors held awkwardly in my left hand. To this day, I'm not particularly good with scissors.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago

I'm cross dominant but consider myself left handed mainly because I do the fine motor stuff writing, eating, etc. with my left hand. Out side of scissors I don't think I've ever felt forced to use a hand that didn't feel comfortable, stupid scissors.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

distributed over the population vs the same 4 girls who sit together at lunch

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[–] [email protected] 52 points 9 months ago (1 children)

The best explanation I've heard is that it's similar to the stats for left-handed people. Way back in the day, almost no one "identified" as being left-handed. But once the stigma against left-handedness was eliminated, the numbers went up.

So in other words, yes, it's a reflection of LGBTQ+ becoming more acceptable, particularly among Gen Z. There could be other factors, but that's probably the main one.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (7 children)

28% seems huge, though. Are there any other animals like that? I'm kind of confused how it's that high even with acceptance lol.

[–] [email protected] 31 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Most male dogs hump your leg regardless of who you are

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Male ducks will even do necrophilia with other males.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago (2 children)

I get your point, but "most"? I've had 5 male dogs of my own over 40-ish years, and have known or met many, many others and I've never once had my leg humped.

[–] JackbyDev 3 points 9 months ago

Most (male dogs that hump)

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 9 months ago (4 children)

It’s mostly bisexuals. You know like Julius Caesar, Alexander of Macedon, and large swaths of people in cultures where same gender romance or sex is acceptable in certain circumstances so long as you also marry and have children.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 9 months ago

Julius Caesar, described by a contemporary as "Every woman's man, and every man's woman"

We stan a bicon in this house

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Yes. Bonobos.

Human appear to be about halfway between chimps and bonobos on the primate spectrum. The violence of chimps combined with the fluid sexual social habits of bonobos lol

https://phys.org/news/2019-09-insights-same-sex-sexual-interactions-important.amp

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 9 months ago

We are the only animal with cultural locks on gender expression. If we didn't have such hang ups about gender norms we would not really notice someone being LGBT. Paradoxically the more regressive and strict people are about gender roles the more people you have that don't fit within those gender roles.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (2 children)

Theres long been a camp that argues the vast majority of people are bisexual (myself included). That's also where pretty much all of the recent growth comes from. Interestingly, most of that comes from bisexual women, while bisexual men consistently self report at levels lower than gay men.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago (1 children)

There are lots of men who identify as straight but have sex with other men. So much so that medical literature often uses MSM as a category instead of gay. There’s an entire DL subculture among African American men.

Anywhere you go you can download Grindr and find oodles of guys who are in heterosexual marriages. The stigma is pretty strong, they probably can’t even internally recognize themselves as somewhat bisexual.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

This is particularly relevant as it relates to how silly this topic and its reactions are. We absolutely KNOW that the current number is an undercount, and yet it's still really hard for people to grasp that the percentage is that high.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

I mean, sexuality is a spectrum. It’s statistically unlikely that a large part of the population is at the exact borders of the spectrum and not even slightly in between.

Especially since afaik physical attraction is just a matter of appearance, and there’s very masculine women or very feminine men.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

Part acceptance, part widening the net of what's included in the category.

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[–] [email protected] 51 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I think it's mostly that very few of them identify as Republican.

But also, the less stigma around gender expression, the more kids will be open to explore theirs.

[–] [email protected] 36 points 9 months ago (1 children)

That’s not what the data said.

https://www.axios.com/2024/01/23/gen-z-less-religious-more-liberal-lgbtq

Identifying as Republican went from 32% in the Boomer Generation to 21% in Gen Z. Identifying as LGBTQ+ went from 4% with Boomers to 28% with Gen Z.

Both changes are major, but the LGBTQ+ change is massive.

[–] [email protected] 37 points 9 months ago (1 children)

It's probably worth mentioning we recognize certain types of people as part of the LGBTQ+ umbrella who were not before. Asexual people, for example.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 9 months ago

Also huge swaths of bi people and a lot of people who are now understood as gay and trans as opposed to straight people who hate their body and life but got rejected from hormones

[–] [email protected] 24 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

It's a confluence of factors. LGBTQIA+ is sort of a gender/sexuallity/ phenotype physicality solidarity alliance and the actual boundries has grown in scope since the 80's.

Like take for instance asexual people. Asexuallity became a part of the solidarity when people reached out over the internet and and started realizing that there were a lot of people who just don't feel sexual attraction and that there are certain widely accepted forms of social coercion that revolve around pushing people towards sexual attraction. But asexuallity as a part of the LGBTQIA only really became a thing in the early 2000's. Non-binary trans identities are much the same. A lot of people were feeling the way they did about themselves in isolation but they had no frame of reference to think that they were not just the odd person out.

The other half is a society wide re-examination of compulsory heterosexuallity/cis gender hegemony. There are way more people out there who no longer define themselves by who they've chosen to have physical sexual experience with and now a lot more people are more frank about defining themselves by the range of people they are attracted to. Like if the majority of people artificially penalize a bi-person for choosing a same sex relationship a lot of people will just take the easier path and just narrow their choices or keep their liasons with the restricted choice secret and not assume the label.

I before I came out as trans initially figured I didn't count as trans because I both wasn't physically transitioning and my industry is somewhat hostile to trans people so I was very closeted ao I figured the label only really belonged to the people brave enough to live out of the closet... But eventually someone found me and was like "No, it's not aspirational. Even deep in the closet you are still trans."

This combination of destigmatization, solidarity messaging, the inclusion of whole other groups (like intersex people, gender minorities, asexuals) broadening the scope and outreach to the closeted means that more people generally self identify as LGBTQIA or queer.

Animal kingdom wise we're still less observably sexual fluid than other primates. Bisexuality is actually pretty ubiquitous particularly amongst male primates with it actually being the overwhelming norm in some species so chances are we are probably actually haven't seen the curve level off from suppressive stigma.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 9 months ago

I believe it's your first option, acceptance for being yourself is the normal instead of a beating from your parents like pre 2000.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 9 months ago

I think most species are more fluid than you realize, and humans are just normal. Especially for apes that share a common ancestor with bonobos.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (2 children)

I would assume they are more honestly/aware of their preference.

I am a gay dude, and I have had friends/coworkers who identified as straight say things like "Why does everyone need to label things? I am 100% straight, but sometimes on a road trip, you just wanna suck the other guy off. Both of us are still straight though"

Every time I have heard thigns like this, it's GenX, or older Millennial. Older than that, they don't bring up "queer" things, younger than that, they just say that they are "mostly straight", or "barely-bi", or "up for whatever".

[–] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago

Yepppppp, the kinsey 1s and 2s are really common and there was a time when even 3s and some 4s would identify as straight.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

I identify as the +. My sexuality is Extra. Anyone up for some algebra?

[–] [email protected] 15 points 9 months ago

drastically more sexually fluid than most species

Have you heard about bonobos? They shag anyone for anything and they're one of our closest relatives. Friends have mutual wanks. Enemies have makeup sex. Threesomes, foursomes. Horny bunch of fuckers.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 9 months ago

LGBT as a category has been increased a lot over the years. Asexual or people who don't feel they conform to super strict gender norms are all included as "queer" now. So I imagine it's a combo of things, some people being trendy, some people being freer and not feeling the need to hide, some people who previously didn't identify being included.

Left handedness was persecuted and after it stopped being persecuted there was a massive rise in people who were left handed. But it plateaued and has remained pretty stable since then.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 9 months ago (1 children)

The 11% dip for the GOP makes sense. Their policies are just not in line with what young people value.

That said, the +24% gain in LGBTQ+ identification is fascinating and I would love to know how nature, nurture, taboo, and oppression play impact that. This would be a really cool time to be in university and studying human sexuality and gender.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 9 months ago (1 children)

My (admittedly relatively hot) take as a younger millennial indoctrinated by the 2nd wave feminists (who weren’t huge on the third wave) is that what gender means has shifted. I didn’t experience myself as particularly gendered growing up in the 90s and early 00s and certainly wouldn’t consider it part of my inner essence. I don’t give a shit how strangers refer to me or whether they think I’m a dude or not. I found it to be a slightly annoying category imposed by everyone else. Something I needed to understand because it impacted how I was received by others, but not something that was core to my self-understanding. In school I studied the humanities which reaffirmed to me that gender was an annoying external category that put people in boxes—we didn’t want gay female CEOs, we wanted to get rid of gender altogether.

I think gen Z actually has a similar thought but instead of doing away with the gender categories many have chosen, on an individual level, to make them their own a bit more in line with 3rd wave ‘boss bitch’ vibes. This still undermines the oppressive nature of the gender roles because it it kind of divorces gender from the societal gender role.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago (1 children)

We are indeed more sexually fluid than most species and given it's "most" and not "all", this isn't unprecedented. It's also not a new phenomena, in Ancient Greek and early-mid Ancient Roman societies queerness was quite common. In fact homosexuality was so prevalent that that the Romans didn't even have a word for heterosexual/homosexual; instead one was either dominant or submissive (e.g. giving or receiving) with the assumption being that most were bisexual and would take partners as they saw fit.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

There would still be a stigma around being the receptive partner. The idea being that a higher status man can penetrate lower status people (younger men, slaves, women). A high status man being penetrated by a lower status person would be worthy of mockery.

Samurai were gay as fuck though. Sengoku period you could even be romantic with other dudes, women are for making babies. I have an 1940s (iirc) English translation of a book of 16th century gay samurai love stories - the guy who wrote the forward thought it was because “mongoloid” people look more feminine 😅

[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago

LGBTQ came out if the closet and GOP went in.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago

Putting sexuality in such a defined state is relatively new in human culture. So most often no one would have the worlds to talk about it or even know it could be classified differently.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

fingers crossed it means there's five gen z Republicans and they don't know how to vote

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Our closest related species gets it on so much in so many ways it is one STD away from extinction. It might be that we really are like this. Maybe the norm for humans was to have random homosexual and hetrosexual orgies everywhere. It was only because it became important to know who the daddy was that things changed? Or the sampling of the survey wasn't great. You know groundbreaking or meaningless.

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