but you actually are following a set of expectations and thoughts and even language that feedback loops on itself in a never ending reinforcement loop.
Isn't that culture in general? Not saying it doesn't apply to "the patriarchy", but this definition is a bit too wide, IMO.
That's the dumbed definition of a word I've seen in quite a while. How about:
"advocating women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes."
They may do it by setting fire to a Theatre just to try to kill a single person, like a terrorist group, but at least this definition fits.
The whole "Feminism is for both sexes" has always been bullshit. You know it, I know it, everyone knows it.