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Does anyone else text someone else in your own home if they are in another room? Am I just too lazy to go talk to them? Are you like me?

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[–] [email protected] 52 points 9 months ago (7 children)

In the olden days we would just scream at the top of our lungs to talk to people in other rooms. I feel like texting captures the lazy spirit without the chaos.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

We continue to yell. Tradition is important in my family.

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 9 months ago (1 children)

My wife and I do this, mostly because we're both often doing stuff in the house, but also want to send each other cat pictures, which don't demand an immediate response.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Yeah me and my husbands messages are mostly memes and cat pictures.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

Us too. Inappropriate memes that make us laugh. Avoids the "can I see" from the kids.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 9 months ago (1 children)

If we're not in the same room, we use an encrypted messenger. We do DMs and have a group chat.

If we're in the same room but don't want the kids to hear, we'll message too. If you ask out loud if we should get pizza, a no would prompt a mutiny.

We tried to use assistant broadcast, but it fails everytime someone turns the volume down on one. They need to fix the volume for broadcasts.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago (2 children)

They need to fix the volume for broadcasts.

They have a lot of long-standing bugs but it seems like Google Assistant isn't really being prioritised by Google at the moment. They're actually removing a bunch of features: https://www.zdnet.com/home-and-office/work-life/google-assistant-will-lose-these-17-features-in-the-next-few-weeks/

Broadcasts via Google's API also fail if the network has IPv6 enabled. That's been broken for years and I doubt it'll ever be fixed.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

So, it’s EOL but they’re still collecting as much data as possible, basically?

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 9 months ago

Bring TP to guest bathroom please!

[–] [email protected] 10 points 9 months ago

My girfriend will text me when I am doing something noisy and she doesn't want to get out of bed.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Only when there's a cat sleeping on someone's lap

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

This is the correct answer.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I'm pretty sure everyone is like someone out there. Except maybe that guy from that other post today who like, decapitated his father and put it on YouTube. I don't know if there's anybody like that guy.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

Oh my god you are so right.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago

if you've got stairs and some shitty acoustics, yeah definitely

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago

Yes. Yes. And yes.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago (4 children)

Technically not texting, but we have a Home Discord group chat.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

We do this, too. Really convenient.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

What is that?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

That's awesome! So much more flexible than group text or whatever.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago

I do, but it’s because my wife works from home and spends three quarters of the day with the chick cave door closed doing teams meetings. Generally my msgs will be “want brunch/coffee/pastries?” etc.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I do, and he reads them days later and apologises.

Now that he is overseas on a business trip he reads them all immediately, but apparently in-house is not an option.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

That’s actually kinda adorable.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago (3 children)

My kid prefers to be texted for dinner. Knocking is iffy because of the ear buds.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I use Google Home Assistant to broadcast messages, e.g. "dinner's ready"

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

If they're in the same room, obviously I'll just speak to them. If they're in the next room over and the door is open, I'll still speak, just louder. But if they're two rooms away or upstairs, I'll text.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I've never done it in my own home, but I had a coworker I'd text with even though his desk was an arms length away from mine. Mostly because it could be hard to tell when either of us was on or about to make a call.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

I've been in large groups and texted with the person I was sitting next to.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

Depends on the size of the home I suppose. Tiny bungalow? Yeah, a little weird. Three-story? Not weird at all IMO.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

All the damn time. If I’m I. The same room and we’re both awake, I speak, but if she’s asleep or I’m working and can’t escape from a vid meeting…. Signal it is.

For various reasons, my memory isn’t worth a damn, so there’s an added benefit of “yes, I told my wife that important thing” in the history

We live on one floor, with a bedroom, an office, a living room, and a kitchen. It’s definitely not that I’m too lazy to take the ten or twelve steps across the house lol

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

All the time. Usually because I am working from home and my husband has the dog snoring in his lap and doesn't want to disturb him. Or I'm piled into bed with the dogs and don't want to create a stir by getting up. Dogs govern a lot of my time lol.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Generally announcing on the Alexa’s.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

All the time

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago (2 children)

What’s it like living in a giant mansion where you can’t hear each other everywhere?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

Nah I do this in my tiny ass railroad style apartment because sound can't carry past one room

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

I often send people pictures or articles on whatsapp while I'm talking to them, it's just easier than going over to show them my phone. I definitely text if someone is out of speaking distance if it's not urgent, stuff like "do you want X for dinner?", that way they can get to it when it's convenient.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I have Philips hue lights throughout the house. My son is green, my daughter is purple and red is both. Sometimes I'm lazy and just turn the lights on and off instead of changing the color.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Colors for what?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

I sometimes do it with people in the same room the lolz 👌

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

When my brother and I lived together, we definitely texted each other, either via text or Discord. When we only lived in a 2bdr apartment. If we were in each of our rooms, with the doors open, we could easily just talk really loudly if we wanted to. But we typically had headsets on.

If I'm visiting my family, if there's something I want to show them on the computer, I'll often just drop it into our family Discord. Easier that way.

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