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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

Fermented squash. I ferment a lot of produce I get from my garden, even stuff I could eat fresh. But squash is first tier.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago

Dates. I prefer fresh, but pitted and dried are still delicious.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 hours ago

Banh Mi (with crispy pork, and lots of chilli and pate).

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 hours ago

OK, this one is going to be tough to explain. I'll start with pictures:

These are two variants of 陈年八仙果 (chén nián bā xiān guǒ or "Aged Eight Immortals Fruit"). Basically you hollow out a pomelo, fill it with a mixture of plum pulp, tangerine peel, assorted spices (including licorice), and salt. Then you dry it until it's dense. You cut it up into those wedges you see above and ... well ... you eat it.

Or you make tea with it.

Or you chop it up finely and use it to flavour meat dishes.

But mostly you just eat it as a snack.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 hours ago

Noodles with a chopped burger patty, onions fried in the burger grease, and a bit of barbecue sauce.

It was mostly a leftover Mashup, but if i could have it again I would.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Two things: satekroket in Amsterdam, from FEBO (I'm addicted to them whenever I go), and cottage pie I've been making from scratch.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

You can't say that and not share your recipe! Let us savour it as well

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago

I used the BBC Good Foods recipe for a cottage pie, however I thinly sliced the onions so they cook slower and sweat differently with the carrots and celery.
People also told me the red wine doesn't matter, however I chose some rather fruity and full bodied wines with the sauce/gravy - I think this really made a difference and the flavours really pop. I tried weaker red wines and they just don't bring out the flavour in the same way.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

Proper Belgian waffles. I have seen two US supermarkets selling proper Liege waffles that you can take home and microwave yourself, and they taste phenomenal

I hope the ones properly made in Liege would be even better, but yeah the supermarket version is still good

[–] [email protected] 2 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

It's quite mundane, as it's a very common ingredient, but I suppose I accidentally discovered New uses in my own cooking life.

I was frying some leftover noodles and I accidentally spilled corn meal in the pan and I just stirred it all in and cooked it anyways. Well holy fuck.

Started adding it in to mashed potatoes and other things, it's so versatile and mildly sweet.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

You should try chinese mashed potato instant noodle combo

It sounds wack but its actually pretty good. Surprisingly works well, kinda like a creamy noodle soup

This is the one i tried

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 4 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

There are different kinds but basically raw salmon/tuna, rice, maybe fruit, cucumber, lettuce, a sauce. It sounds really gross and weird but it's somehow delicious (if you like sushi).

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago

Sounds good!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 17 hours ago

Been trying to eat less meat since some times and came across two discoveries that stuck with me : kebab sandwiches with falafel instead of meat, and red beans 'steaks' (mashed beans with a bit of flour, onions, seasoning, fried in a pan) that are amazing alone or in burgers. Also thx for the question/thread, it's very nice to see everyone slice of life

[–] [email protected] 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Jajangmyeon. Saucy lil bowl of flavor

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 hours ago

The original Chinese Zhajiangmian is much better IMO.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago (1 children)

muhummara - it's a dip, Syrian in origin, made from roasted red peppers enriched with walnut paste and sweetened with pomegranate molasses

it's amazing on fresh bread

I put some on a pita for my seven-year-old and told him it was pizza, he devoured it and asked for more

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

I have a book with a recipe for that that ive been meaning to try for about a year now

[–] [email protected] 9 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Pretty basic, but I've been adding coconut milk to my curries and it's great because it gives it an extra richness as well as letting you add even more chilies!!

It raises the price per bowl a bit, but I think it's worth it to make it a little more special.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 20 hours ago

Also a calorie bomb, unfortunately. It goes in my Thai green curry and I wish I could have it more often 😩

Coconut milk is also one of those things where brand name makes a huge difference.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Gumbo. I'd never tried it since I'm not a fan of seafood dishes, but I stumbled upon Isaac Toups' chicken and sausage gumbo recipe and it's borderline life-changing.

One of the best things to ever come out of my kitchen.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Gumbo without seafood is usually called jambalaya, although I might be deeply offending someone with such a flippant remark.

Jambalaya is so good, and it's a great way to use up a bunch of leftover or home-frozen veg.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 hours ago

Toups said calling it gumbo is a north/south Louisiana thing, but hell if I know.

He also said to use good sausage, and if you don't live somewhere where you can get good sausage, move. Solid life advice.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

been fermenting everything! Juice, onions, cucumbers, peppers, ginger. Make it fizz baby!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

That sounds dope. Where did you look for information on this? I've gotten into fermented foods more recently in my life and I love them.

[–] zero_spelled_with_an_ecks 5 points 23 hours ago

Kahi https://www.196flavors.com/iraq-kahi/

There's a place by me that serves this and Turkish coffee.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Not quite discovered but I recently started making popcorn at home and it's so good!! Before I only ever had popcorn at the cinema (where I don't go often anyway), but as it turns out buying corn kernels and making it myself makes for a cheap and tasty snack. Less recently, I tried eel sushi and really liked it!! Shame I only know of one restaurant that does it though

[–] [email protected] 5 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

Just a few seconds before the kernels start popping, one adds one spoon of butter and it is the tastiest thing.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Unfortunately I don't like butter, but I'll keep that in mind for my brother who does like it!

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 13 hours ago

Couple teaspoons of icing sugar or crush some cane sugar into powder with a mortar and pestle.

You can make it "totally next level" for maybe 30 extra calories

[–] [email protected] 2 points 15 hours ago

Mix the butter with sirarcha and drizzle after popping!

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

Hummus in general but specifically: jalapeño hummus.

Turns out it's delicious. I've been eating it with carrots, chips, and on sandwiches.

EDIT: OMFG PICKLE HUMMUS TOO, APPARENTLY. SO GOOD

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Best sandwich ever is hummus, grated carrot and sultana. Fucking lovely

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Hot sauce and spicy foods in general. When I was younger I couldn't handle the heat, but now I'm trying hot sauce on all sorts of things.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Pumpkin sausage from the local farm. I'm usually not a sossidge fan, but darn, those are nice.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Lazy Dog restaurant serves candied bacon and a PBJ burger, both of which are incredible.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Branson Pickle spread. Ordered a toaster at a pub in London, and the guy put a little in a cup on the side. It was so good on the sandwich. Never would’ve tried that!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Ooooh I love cheese toasties so I may well do this thanks

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Tomato and dry roasted peanuts 🤌

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Garlic (and other veggie) confit, using said confit as an ingredient in homemeade tapenade.
Also made a Bordelaise for the first time ever. I love learning new foods.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

For a given value of recent, it's between three things.

Black garlic, vegemite and marmite.

Black garlic is candy with depth. Sweet, savory, and a mild pungency that nothing else has. It's also a great ingredient, but stands as its own delightful edible.

Vegemite is basically a salt and umami bomb. It's best used as a spread, imo, but can be added to soups, stews, or other dishes that can use a little boost with only the smallest of additions.

Marmite is similar to vegemite, but has a bit more versatility, imo. It's also more of a syrupy consistency compared to the paste of vegemite. The flavor profile is different though, with marmite having a malty undertone and being slightly earthier. But it can generally be added to marinades and sauces in a way that vegemite isn't as good at.

The key with the 'mites is moderation. As ingredients, you might add at most a whole teaspoon to a pot of soup. And that's going to be a heavy addition. As a spread, you want the thinnest possible layer on the bread because both are salty and potent. But, you can layer on a little of either, with some butter, on toast and it is amazing, just like that.

Black garlic, I have trouble using as an ingredient because it's just so damn good by itself. But it can go anywhere garlic goes. Either by itself, or with normal garlic. But I prefer it along the lines of how people use truffles, and typically on dishes where it's going to have plenty of room to come though. It's expensive enough compared to regular garlic that you don't want to waste it in a giant pot of marinara where it'll get drowned out.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Not a single food, but I discovered sushi tastes good with ranch dressing.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Kelp snacks are pretty nice. It's the combination of having this wet chewy texture with savory flavours that really does it for me. Great to munch on in the summer.