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[–] [email protected] 115 points 1 week ago (3 children)

One of my moms favorite stories about my childhood (I was like 6), is that I wanted to wear a skirt, like my sisters, to a wedding.

She had to explain to me that boys don't wear skirts.

Only for a scottish man to be at the wedding, wearing a kilt. I apparently got very cross with mom for lying to me.

[–] [email protected] 46 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I love this story, and thanks for giving me another reason to appreciate Scottish nonconformity.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's not really nonconformity, it just conforms to a different set of fixed gender-specific clothing rules.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yep. I’d imagine a lot of people would consider some middle eastern male clothing to be dresses as well. It’s all just perspective.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Meanwhile I just wanna rock a linen thobe

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 week ago

oh speaking of, yesterday I was looking at an alt punk skirt with like a metal chain and spikes on it.
In the reviews there was this real manly man wearing it next to his significant other with the caption along the lines "I got invited to my buddies Scottish wedding, but I am not Scottish. So I got this. 5 stars."

dude was rocking it fr 🔥

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Is the dog going to be okay?

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 week ago (1 children)

No dogs were harmed in the making of this photo.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 week ago

Looks good on you! Life's too short to be uncomfortable with whatever/whoever you want to be.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 week ago

I love your androgynous look!

I’m not seeing much of a fashion community on here but there’s a streetwear one that might really enjoy this :D

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Skirt and socks should be black so the bag can be your accent piece.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I love how the only criticism here is fashion-oriented color theory. This is a special place and you all are great. Thanks for this comment.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I love talking fashion and giving outfit ideas! Wish we had communities for that here lol

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

Yeah, me too. We'll get there. It will just take some time.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I'm actually inclined to disagree, I feel like the outfit would be unbalanced and the white trim and doggo purse competing. The white socks at least offer a bit of balance to the look imo

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I agree! Making the skirt and socks black would make things too busy on the top/top-heavy.

Maybe just change the skirt color to navy or black so it provides contrast with the purse (which is definitely the statement piece)

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

But wouldn’t you say the dog bag is a statement? Otherwise, why not go with a more conventionally shaped bag? The skirt color (at least in the picture) really takes away from the bag imo.

I am also a fan of symmetry and the three white stripes bug me in a way the white trim does not.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

The statement is that it isn't a statement. An understatement, if you will.

It's a big part of looking classy. Why wear a diamond studded gold watch when you can wear a normal looking watch that those in the know will recognize as expensive?

Same principle. You don't necessarily notice the bag immediately, so when you do notice it you get to appreciate the outfit a second time. There's layers, which makes it sophisticated. Classy.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 week ago

Whole ensemble looks great! Gender clothing rules are stupid, rock that shit!

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Are we sure its a true scotsman?

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Had to look hard to even notice the skirt past the mismatched socks. 🤷

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

That's an asymmetrical pair. If it throws you, that's intentional. Clearly this isn't a person who wants to lull you with their conformity.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

Everyone, everywhere... should wear what they dare.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

Legitimately nice fit.

Not sure I get the bag though, to be honest.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I love the whole look, and especially the stripes on just one calf! Drawing the eye to the gray zone so we don't miss the doggie bag! The leggings/socks combo keeping you warm and also covered in case the December wind blows your skirt up. Or in case you just want to do a twirl! Pockets in the jacket in case your hands get cold.

10/10

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

Damn, you got drip

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

This comment thread is kinda dumb, you look great!! I love the dog haha
And welcome to Lemmy btw 🤗

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

This look kills! The purse is everything 🔥💯🔥

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

I like your accessories. Normally I don't like mismatched socks, but it really works with this outfit.

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