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[–] [email protected] 71 points 3 days ago (6 children)

Yeah, it was weird. Most restaurants had a non-smoking section because allowing people to smoke everywhere was the norm. Leaded gasoline. Little kids playing with real fireworks. The 70s and 80s were a wild ride of irresponsibility.

It wasn't all bad, though. It was cool being a kid at times. Playing outside almost every day until dinner time with the other kids in the neighborhood.

[–] [email protected] 46 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Don't forget no cell phones. It's hard to overstate the (I believe negative) impact constant connection and notification has had on every aspect of our lives

[–] [email protected] 26 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Some boomer on Facebook recently posted a meme with a photo of a rotary phone and how those were better days, and I had to laugh because they decidedly weren't. When we had no answering machine or call waiting, and had to hang around for phone calls that might come, or have the car break down on the side of the road and hope that someone would stop and help you and that they weren't a serial killer, that was purely awful. We actually had a serial killer couple abducting and killing teenage girls in my city before cell phones existed, and they made tapes of them raping and torturing these girls before they killed them. A cell phone would probably have helped them a lot. Those girls went through hell, they even raped and ended up accidentally killing her teenage sister.

https://www.thecanadianencyclopedia.ca/en/article/paul-bernardo-and-karla-homolka-case

[–] [email protected] 21 points 3 days ago (3 children)

There also weren't people broadcasting mass shootings live on Facebook and inspiring copycat shootings, or being indoctrinated into incel culture alone in their bedrooms. There are legitimate pros and legitimate cons to 24/7 connection, this isn't just some "boomer yells at the sky" thing

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 days ago (2 children)

That's why I would say that cell phones are fine. It's when they turned into smartphones where I would draw the line. I just get the feeling that we'd be a lot better off if mobile phone tech never advanced much further than the mid-2000's flip phone.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago

It's decidedly worse for mental health. Despite living in the safest times in living memory, we are biased to think our cities are dangerous and economies are failing because of doomscrolling and the dominance of online news.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (4 children)

Non smoking section with like an 18 inch wall separating it from the smoking section. My mom almost got into a fistfight at a couple of restaurants for seating us directly next to the smoking section instead of in the opposite corner with less secondhand smoke.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 3 days ago (1 children)

In most restaurants I saw there was no wall in between.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

In most restaurants I saw there was no wall in between.

This was my experience as well. I can still see it today in some older restaurants that haven't been renovated in years, where there's an area of the dining room with a much higher ceiling.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 3 days ago (2 children)

As a child of the 70s/80s, although I don't remember a great deal of the 70s, your parents had no idea where you were until you came home when the streetlights went on, unless you happened to call from a friend's house to ask if you could sleep over. I remember my friend getting run over by a car which broke her leg because there was no crossing guard on the busy street where the kids had to cross to go to school, and after that they hired one. I lived up the street from the school, and had a cat that went outside, on hot days the front doors were always open and sometimes she'd go nap in the library or show up in my classroom. Then the neighbour who hates animals and had lost his teaching job for exposing himself to students abducted her and dumped her way across town, but someone found her and put an ad in the list and found section of the paper so I got her back.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 days ago

They had smoking/non-smoking sections into the 90s and early 2000s in Texas. I remember very clearly that my parents would have to ask for seats away from the bar if the restaurant had one, because they almost always allowed smoking. Also hotel rooms being smoking/non-smoking, and you could tell when a hotel was cheap and just swapped the door sign.

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 3 days ago (2 children)

In the 80s and 90s a cool ash tray was a good gift for literally anyone. Even teenagers since half of them were smoking reefer

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 days ago (1 children)

It's true! Making clay ashtrays for your parents in art class was a thing.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 days ago (2 children)

As a kid I liked the shitty little ashtrays they had in fast food restaurants. Like McDonald’s. I think they were aluminum and meant to be pretty much disposable. You could play with them like flying saucers. Or a shield for your GI Joe guys. Or if your GI Joe guys were going on vacation in the snow. They were maluable so you could shape them.

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[–] [email protected] 41 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Jokes on you. You also didn't know how bad everyone smelled because you smelled just like them.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 3 days ago (1 children)

It's totally true, we all smelled terrible.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 days ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Living in Norway, it always strikes me how disgusting smoking still is, even outside, when i go to central europe. You get completely unused to the amount of smoke and stink e.g. outside of stores

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I only ever smell it outside anymore, but I walk away fanning the air in front of my face. It's so nasty.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Can always tell the people who smoke in their cars.

Their cloths are saturated in it and they're noseblind to it. I'm in Healthcare and you get off an elevator and can tell when the Caregiver who smokes was on the elevator before you.

NICE

Always am heavily cognizant since I smoke weed to not be like the ciggy cunts. Would want someone to tell me.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I always thought I had bad indoor allergies until i moved out of my parents house. They have chain smoked inside with the windows closed for my whole life. Moving out was the best thing I ever did for my health.

I hate cigarettes now, especially since I quit smoking myself(didnt smoke inside though) I don't even know why I started in the first place. I'm dumb I guess?

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Dont worry americans if you want to smell smoke 24/7 just come to france or eastern europe.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Hit the ground in Germany, bombarded by smokers almost instantaneously.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Germany is worse than France ime.

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 3 days ago (1 children)

My neighbour smokes indoors. When she opens the door, I get the smell you are talking about.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 3 days ago (1 children)

My aunt smoked two packs a day, in the house, and when I visited I had to wear clothes I was ready to throw away, had to strip and shower when I got home, and once in the space of an hour she smoked seven cigarettes and finally one of my eyes swelled shut, and she demanded to know why I didn't say anything. My husband pointed out the walls were yellow with tobacco, she lived in the house she grew up in and all the furniture was the same as when she was a child. When she died it all had to be junked, despite some of it probably being antique.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Once in a great while, I have a brain fart and tell the restaurant host "two for non".

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

That's hilarious. Do they stare at you blankly?

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago

I remember coming home from shows in high school/college and I would have to shower and throw my clothes in the washer. I was so happy when smoking was finally banned in clubs.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Well, now the streets just smell like weed instead.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I grew up in a house with smokers, picked it up as a teenager and smoked a pack a day for 20 years after that. Now I can smell someone lighting up 2 blocks away.

It's kind of crazy. As time passed without smoking, I noticed many things smelled differently to me. For example, I was repulsed by the smell of cheddar cheese the first time I smelled it after quitting. I can't put it into words properly but it smelled so different from what I was expecting that the thought of taking a bite made my stomach turn.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

That’s interesting! My uninformed guess: since smoke is such a powerful smell, smoking constantly probably suppresses one‘s ability to smell other things - so after 20 years you’re probably accustomed to things smelling less strong and more smokey than they actually do. So I can see why smelling something very strong like cheese with your full sense of smell restored would be quite a shock!

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Also once about eight years ago I was in Kentucky doing the bourbon trail. It's pretty rural aside from the distilleries, and finding somewhere to eat lunch on Sunday was hard as almost everything is closed, we ended up at some place they called a bourbon gastropub, but that meant that the dining room side was the only part fit to eat in, but all that was open was the horrible bar which was made of raw particle board, and there were members of the Klan sitting at it, who had the leather vests with the blood drop cross. There was literally nowhere else to eat so we ordered, but I felt terrified the whole time, and as we were wrapping up one of the Klan lit a cigarette at the bar and just sat there, and nobody said anything. It was quite stunning.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 days ago (2 children)

You can also just take a trip to the Waffle House off I-95 in Florence, SC. It allowed smoking when I was there in 2014 and probably still does.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

There's a small city in the Kansas City, Missouri metro (Raytown) that lobbied to keep it legal in restaurants and bars. I just looked it up, and apparently it's fine to smoke weed as of 2023, too

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 days ago

going to the grocery store and seeing an employee with a big dust-mop going up and down the aisles pushing along an ever-growing pile of cigarette butts because everyone would just drop 'em and step on 'em and keep on shopping...

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago

My mother in law smokes, so a visit to her house always results in throwing whatever clothes we’ve taken directly into the washing machine when we get home.

Worse though, is that it takes a few days for the smell to leave my CPAP machine. I put a new filter in, but it still somehow lingers.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Born in early 90's. We were still responding "non" to the first question that was asked entering a restaurant.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I have a old friend from school times and both of his parents smoked heavily making his freshly washed clothes smell like ashes. Every time he opened his sports bag in the changing rooms I could feel the smell meters away. Fortunately he never developed a smoking habit.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Yes, that was super normal. I actually broke up with a guy because I couldn't stand to go to his house, because his father spent all night smoking in a chair in front of the TV, and his mother spent the night drinking a whole box of Chardonnay over ice, smoking endlessly, and calling every single person she knew on the planet all night long until she was hiccuping drunk and the father had to put her to bed. It never would have gone anywhere so it didn't matter but it was just disgusting. Then in the late 90s my mother took up smoking again after quitting for several years and insisted on doing it in the house, and it made me sick time and again.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

American casinos fucking reek

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

A lot of countries still do. Japan has changed a lot in the 15isj years since I first came and even more in the decade I've been living here

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

Despite never having touched a cigarette in my life, my mom smokes pretty heavily... Knowing i probably stink to everyone else really sucks ;-;

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

I still remember when it was okay to smoke inside hospitals. Fun times...
When I quit, it took just a few weeks to recover my sense of smell, and I wish it didn't because my house reeked of acrid smoke for months. Even my clean clothes smelt like unwashed smoked ass, it was sickening.

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