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submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

I disavow the ignorance displayed in the statement that “Feminists always think women are better than men.” But felt important to share how well received such a message is received on this site.

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[–] [email protected] 108 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)
[–] [email protected] 97 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 57 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

i really love this and also the amount of jpg distortion going on showing how loved and re-distributed this post was

[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Yeah, it was the least potato version I could find lol definitely well loved..

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 weeks ago

One part has even been removed with white digital ink. Fascinating

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 weeks ago

It's like a well read book lmao

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I'd love for someone who down voted this to explain their position..

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I agree, but wouldn't hold my breath lol

Though I don't doubt at least a couple have already commented elsewhere on this thread, and are trying to hide their anti-feminism (aka misogyny) behind the thin veil of pretending it excludes them, and that we must refocus thousands of years of feminist struggle on to them and call it "egalitarianism" otherwise they have no reason to join our fight for equality (which they conveniently ignore means equality for everyone, which is why they need to make up excuses to reject it, because, going back to the meme I posted and why they downvote it - they don't want equality, they want to hold on to superiority at all costs, and their fragile egos don't like having that mirror held up to them).

(edit to add: and even if we give in and centre them and do call it egalitarianism, they won't actually want to fight with us to bring down the patriarchy, they'll just keep shifting the goalposts to make it more and more about freeing their poor souls from the imaginary oppression of feminism) .

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

I mean, I do think that using the term Feminism for movements that aren't about women seeking equality is kind of a stretch of the original word. If the focus of the movement has changed so much that defining it as the original focus isn't accurate anymore, a new word should be used for the new movement instead. I'm undereducated on modern Feminist theory but this seems to me to be self-evident and I've never seen a good argument why referring to gender-related egalitarianism as Feminism has more positives than negatives.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

you should read that work by hooks, it’s linked and available right there

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

I noticed it was a direct PDF download (based). I have a 7 hour car ride coming up, if it doesn't make me too carsick I might read it!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 101 points 3 weeks ago (8 children)

People are blaming propaganda, I additionally blame the attention economy aka social media algorithms that favor attention. Young men are often shown videos of "crazy feminists" acting stupid, which gives this impression.

If you only see the dumbest people and takes from a movement, big surprise you won't understand it.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I think your point might also apply the other way - people are also encouraged to make exaggerated, incendiary comments for attention. Mild, reasonable takes, especially not posted quickly, will usually be overshadowed by the more extreme top comments. I believe the poster in question defended themselves claiming it was just an exaggeration.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

excellent analysis. this is part of my reasoning for making posts like these. silly little reactionary posts responding to misunderstanding or bigotry often have some of the more interesting and nuanced discussion and learning in the comments.

tldr i think it’s possible to reverse engineer propaganda structures if you put some thought into it

[–] [email protected] 30 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

honestly i don’t think it’s too big a stretch to claim that the attention economy you describe is an intentional structure of conservative propagandists.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

it's so much not a stretch that it simply just is. it's the kinda stretch you get sleeping in a perfectly neutral resting position for 8 hours

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago

Not at all a stretch indeed. Although I think they discovered the attention economy, which was initially a side-product of profit-driven social networks.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I additionally blame the attention economy aka social media algorithms that favor attention

I mean this is also propaganda :P This is how the alt right are setting their hooks in people, by using the algorithms as they are to get boys and young men to listen to their little gurus etc. and slowly pull them right.

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[–] [email protected] 53 points 3 weeks ago (7 children)

Yeah I've seen so much casual misogyny upvoted here

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[–] [email protected] 38 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

What years of anti-feminist propaganda does to a man

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 3 weeks ago (16 children)

Kind of a roundabout way to say that, but I guess the underlying message is people are equally terrible? That's not really the worst opinion I've seen.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

The actual message is the "... And feminists are hypocrite liars about it" part you skipped over.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago

thanks for saying the truth lol. i happen to also believe that people are equally terrible but it’s annoying that people are intentionally ignoring the other half of the message.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I have encountered a lot of this mentality on Lemmy. Sometimes I go to engage, but it's simply not worth it.

You won't be able to inform folks with these opinions in a content aggregator forum, it's just not the place for learning (and 196 is much less so).

Also is this OC in 196? Isn't that sort of against the spirit of the community?

[–] [email protected] 34 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

it’s just not the place for learning

awww dont tell me what to do :( i have learned much on this site and now i’m contributing back. i like doing my part to make the places i hang out nicer for everyone :)

Also is this OC in 196?

yes

Isn’t that sort of against the spirit of the community?

no i have done it for years

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 weeks ago

I only engage to make them feel unwelcome for having a bigoted view.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I thought political beliefs were three dimensional before I entered Lemmy. Now I think there's four

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)
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[–] [email protected] 20 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

The worst opinion you've ever seen

Yup, that's about what I expect every week or so

[–] [email protected] 17 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Lemmy isn't a monolith, and understanding that the fediverse has set itself up as an alternative to centralised platforms, I don't think we should be surprised when trolls who tend to get banned on those other platforms find their way here.

Of course we're going to see a lot of reactionary opinions here. These are the reactionaries that are too reactionary for reddit. They've learned to be less overt in their views because lemmy can excise a whole instance that's just reactionary.

I'd say right now they're trying to radicalise the normies. Vote manipulation is probably part of that strategy to make their views look more accepted than they are.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 weeks ago

he is so wrong that he got it right at the end... somehow

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago

Wario’s origin story.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

https://fedia.io/m/[email protected]/t/1488712/-/comment/8371814

seriously what the fuck. at least his replies are in the negatives. i suspect a troll, but all these upvotes??

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

How hard is it to manipulate votes on Lemmy instances? I'm guessing the answer varies depending on the instance but I don't think it's completely impossible on any of them.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

To back this statement up, there was/is a vegan community that would ban anyone who downvoted a post in their community so that sub would jump to the frontpage, because anyone who was banned could no longer vote on its content.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

the context was one singular example of this happening btw, its still a bad take tho

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Having seen that thread, lemmy.ca isn't sending its best, as usual.

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