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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago

The eyebrows are super villain arched today. She gave herself like 4 inches of lid space! She bold lol also stfu about the trick or treating. I never even thought about teenagers trick or treating/not doing so until SHE brought it up. Then she whines about how she used to be scared of them? Wtf.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Not her laying it on about the damn trick or treating again today. This is such a NON ISSUE!!!! Why doesn’t she put this energy into something important?? Oh right because that would require caring about important world issues so she’s choosing something that is super minimal and only lasts a day to show she cares.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Right, meanwhile over here in the US we are days away from Election Day like 🙈🙏🏽🤯🤢🫠😩🤞🏾🤪🥸

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago (2 children)

The anxiety I've been feeling! I am gonna go early vote today. But yes trick or treating teenagers lol

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Born control freak and catastrophizer ✌🏽 female middle aged POC, I am terrified and basically unhinged at this point 🤪

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago

I’m anxious here in Canada…but hopeful ❤️

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago

Looks like busy boss babe at quite a busy November. She just got her schedule! Is that part of Shine’s job as well? To organize Birdshit’s life.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Is she clout chasing herself? Over one of the only things in a long time, that was recycled, and got any traction?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

She’s going to keep with it as long as she can. For some unknown reason this topic gets her a decent amount of engagement. I will never understand.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago (1 children)

What would be a more touching subject, would be the expectations of Halloween with all of the food insecurity happening right now. Boo hoo teenagers. What about people who can’t afford food, let alone candy right now? OR the fact that kids who need the food security and nutrition will be supplementing with Halloween candy that they get? Don’t get me wrong, I do know it’s about the joy it brings to children, but maybe I have a bleeding heart and thinking of ALL of the other aspects effected.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago

This.

Also if she cared so much about Halloween and making all the kids happy, she should donate bags of candy to a cause so people less fortunate or poeple who can’t go out trick or treating can have something too. But no she’s happy just handing out her big bars in her big house.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Really laying on the, I’m the best mom, look at me spending time with my child super thick tonight.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 days ago

And it’s so awkward too! It’s so staged and she’s acting like she’s playing with a child much younger than L actually is. Once the camera is off, it seems like she’s probably done

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Last night and again tonight - she’s just trying to back up her mom of the year BS from her podcast.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I read the transcript of that podcast and she was going through so many contortions trying to justify her mothering it was painful. It appears she was playing the part of a 1950s tv mom while her first 3 were very young and is now playing the part of a high-powered executive. She’s unable to recognize there is balance. She’s also not shy about throwing her ability to pay others to pick up the slack to ease her burden (something most people can’t afford). I found the passage about dropping L off and having coffee with her own mother every morning very telling. She says she doesn’t want the relationship to be transactional. She uses that word a lot when speaking of relationships.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

Awe! Does she take the time to slurp down some Tim Hortons coffee grinds with her melted ice cream cone before she runs out the door? So sweet 🥹

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago

She’s such a joke.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 days ago (3 children)
[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

She’s also not just pretending to be stupid. In this story she says the person said “dribbly bitch” but if SNL types it it says she could be reported. Yes. Welcome to Instagram. I get warned constantly and ignore it.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

But she can repost swearing and IG is Ok with that?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago

I’m sure Instagram is ok with whatever makes money, including fake tears & fake bodies.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago

The migration of that bottom lip filler. It's like a little hammock

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago

fake tears!

[–] [email protected] 14 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

And there it is BirdShit Saves Halloween with her regurgitated content. Do remind us about how you hand out FULL size chocolate bars and get over 300 kids.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

That door is so tacky I'm so glad I don't have to look at it everyday. Without the flowers it would probably be fine what with all the other pink decor but those flowers make it look so cheap and stupid. I'd be embarrassed for family/kid's friends coming over to that

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 days ago (2 children)

She posted this about her reno. You just know she’s going to add an excessive amount of tacky af decor, most likely Disney crap.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Like, cool, good for you! People will think about optimizing their whimsy once they return home from their 9-5 or the line at say, the food bank or something. Get real

Also edit to say, I didn't realize your comment was in reply to mine!! That scares me even more with the whimsy. I sense Tackytown

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Can someone translate? What in the run on is she saying?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago

Words. But words with other words. And some more words on top of that. Finally, the words become words.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Regardless of it being hubby's bday or not, it seems as though her "entourage" are distancing themselves further from her. Although I am not a fan of her BFF/old BFF/flavor of the month AC, at least she is pretending to do something for her community being at the Childrens Foundation event. For the "influencer" and "fame" S has, you think she would be showing her face at these events. But no, she's only self serving and would never fathom doing anything good for her own community. Only if it involves a trip for herself to Disney. Wonder why? Oh.......because her community knows the real S and sees right through her. She's also burned so many bridges within the community, being selfish with free services from small business and taking off. Or maybe she feels she's out in the community doing good, every weekend, gracing Guelphites with her presence at the mall......

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago

100% agree!

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 days ago (3 children)

NB is such a kiss ass. People question someone like Sarah bc she leaves every week or every other week and it ISN'T FOR WORK despite what she says, it’s alll fun!!! Nobody is gonna question your husband Becci since he’s actually probably doing WORK.

Someone should do us all a favour and listen to Sarah try to justify why it’s okay to go on a trip once a week

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I skimmed the transcript, I cannot stand her voice, and it’s just a lot of Sarah describing what a beaten down woman she is, carrying the load! She describes in detail how she feels so sad about leaving home for her “big career”. The self importance is ridiculous.

She does tell on herself - saying the first thing she did as a single mom was hire a cleaning service so that when she had her kids on Saturdays she was with them and not cleaning. Sounds so poor and alone 🙄.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago (1 children)

This is pathetic. She doesn’t feel sad at all, she literally jumps at every opportunity to leave it all behind. And if anyone is carrying the load it’s NK fps, that woman cares for her grandchild every single day all while dealing with a chronic illness.

Also the phone bit?? She literally never puts down her phone, does she realize she posts everything to Instagram? Lmao

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Like yesterday at the neighborhood park! She put her phone down….to record her performative ass running around with L because everyone needs to see that.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago

Wait? Running? She better watch that black runners toe. She will use that as an excuse as to why she can't play with her kid

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

And this part. putting down her phone 😬

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago

What did I just read? She needs to go back to elementary school English

[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 days ago

I’m sure the 23 people who will listen can relate 😂

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

He has a typical 9-5 who travels occasionally?! and she is a sahm why the hell would I question him 🤣

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago

Lmao right? Sarah isn’t hands on and gives zero shits about dropping her responsibilities that’s why we’re all questioning her.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Interesting choice of words.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 5 days ago (2 children)

SEEMS.

Man, that comment is loaded with subtext.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 5 days ago

It’s sad that Shame’s mother only views his life through curated photos that are posted to social media. Her only conclusion is he “seems happy”. I wonder what she doesn’t see.

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