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[–] [email protected] 120 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Me and my wife finally got an apartment after being homeless couch surfers for 6 months

[–] [email protected] 38 points 4 months ago

That's wonderful! Congratulations ☺️

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[–] [email protected] 75 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I was on Lemmy and saw a post where a user named TooManyPancakes (which is a lie!) asked everyone for some uplifting news to brighten their day.

It was a wonderful exchange! This caring person, with the poorly chosen user name, took time out of their day to reply to as many comments as they could, with uplifting affirmations of their own.

Completely made my day to see someone ask for help and then return it in kind, many times over. ❤️❤️❤️

[–] [email protected] 43 points 4 months ago

Aw, you're sweet! I just figured I probably wasn't the only one that could use some positivity today

And for the record, it takes a lot of pancakes 😉

[–] [email protected] 75 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I crushed it in a job interview

[–] [email protected] 31 points 4 months ago

Nice! I hope you get it, crossing fingers and toes for you

[–] [email protected] 63 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I got hired!

Granted, my bike was stolen pretty much immediately, but still! I'm exited to potentially not be broke anymore, once that first paycheck comes in.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Boo on the bike theft, but getting the job you were shooting for is rad as hell!

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[–] [email protected] 55 points 4 months ago (3 children)

I’m taking my health a lot more seriously now, and haven been able to lose 10kg since may.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago

Damn, that's some good shit

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[–] [email protected] 53 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Found a woman that is exactly as weird and different as I am, which I thought was impossible, I was already fine with staying romantically alone my whole life :)

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[–] [email protected] 51 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

My life happened to end but I came back.

Additionally, since I'm from Europe I am not bankrupt due to that.

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[–] [email protected] 49 points 4 months ago (1 children)

My post-surgery biopsy says no cancer, we removed the sad stuff just in time.

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[–] [email protected] 45 points 4 months ago (5 children)

My partner and I replaced the broken kitchen faucet all by ourselves, which might sound lame, but neither of us is a plumber, and it's glorious to have running water in the kitchen again.

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[–] [email protected] 45 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I finally unlocked the confidence to be the version of me that I want to be. Got the haircut I've always wanted, have it dyed the colour I want, I'm getting a new piercing soon, and I'm planning out the tattoo I'm going to get once I have some spare money. It's been a journey to get here, but I'm so fucking happy with who I am and I no longer feel the need to apologize for being comfortable as my self.

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[–] [email protected] 44 points 4 months ago (1 children)

My sickness is finally clearing up after weeks!

[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 months ago

Fabulous to hear! Feel better soon 💜

[–] [email protected] 43 points 4 months ago (3 children)

I just grilled a nice steak.

I can’t afford them too often so when I do it’s a great day.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 4 months ago

It feels good when you get to treat yourself, doesn't happen often enough for sure!

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[–] [email protected] 34 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Yesterday my toddler comes up to me and says, "daddy, build block tower?" So I tell her to go get her blocks, which she does. We built a block tower, knocked it down (which makes her giggle), built it again, etc.

A decade ago I was in a horribly toxic marriage and honestly didn't think I would ever have kids. Today, I have an awesome wife and three kids. I love all of them and I enjoy getting to spend time with them. I never would have imagined myself being where I am today and I am reminded often that I am a very lucky man.

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[–] [email protected] 33 points 4 months ago (1 children)

My partner of 12 years and mother of my children got citizenship in my home country a few days ago. It's been a long and difficult road to get here.

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 4 months ago (1 children)

We got a new puppy, and he's smart, and sweet, and goofy, and cute, and we love him.

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I earned a certification last week for work!

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[–] [email protected] 31 points 4 months ago

I was awarded a big scholarship on Sunday that happened to be the exact amount I needed to pay for my first year of college. The rest of my years are mostly paid for. I've always want to go to this college. I was excited about going, but now I'm even more excited now that I've earned enough scholarships to pay for it.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 4 months ago (3 children)

After 7 years of trying, I'm finally going back to university this year to get the degree i always wanted :D

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I might have made a new friend in the real world! It’s quite exciting as that doesn’t happen often and I feel very lucky, if the friendship sticks.

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Thank you for this thread. Nothing particular I can share right now, but I needed this.

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 4 months ago (1 children)

My son had one question wrong on his mathematics final exam. He noticed that the grader took the point off on a question that he had originally wrong but had corrected. The grader fixed it when my son pointed it out, so he got a perfect score!

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Am performer. My performance career is finally starting to take off doing what I love, and I'm now a frequent flier at a historic venue

[–] [email protected] 26 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I tried making mango sticky rice for the first time, and it came out great!

It's a really nice treat/dessert. It's a sort of very sweet rice pudding made with coconut milk, and rather simple to make

https://thefoodietakesflight.com/mango-sticky-rice/#recipe

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 4 months ago (2 children)

My daughter just started school. She's pretty stoked about it, and so are we.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 4 months ago (1 children)

built some Z-Frame patio chairs last week. Was (is) pretty baller

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 4 months ago

Reasons to be Cheerful – news site founded by David Byrne

[–] [email protected] 21 points 4 months ago

My sister changed her doctorate focus this year. Since then she has enjoyed her studies and lab work more. I am going to visit her since her professor sent her to a prestigious university for continued education becuase of her lab work.

I'm proud of her.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 4 months ago

I just had my first serious art show. Not solo, but still.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 4 months ago (13 children)

My son is helping me put a front and rear tow hook on and will be my engineer and copilot on our first track day next week.

We have helmets and everything, can't wait!

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Our second wedding anniversary is this weekend!

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 4 months ago

i fought a traffic ticket and won lol

[–] [email protected] 19 points 4 months ago

Just beat Elden Ring shadow of the erdtree... Feeling great

[–] [email protected] 19 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (7 children)

Two specific things.

  1. My wife & I bought a house! 🎉
  2. My doctors got me on ozempic because i have hypothyroidism & i literally cannot lose weight. Ive dropped 20 lbs in a month & a half!
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[–] [email protected] 19 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I have a surprise day off coming up.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Gosh I totally feel that. Maybe something is going around.

I got to spend some time with my big sister. We had tea and talked awhile, then played Smash Bros. She apparently loves to spam Falcon Punch, so I got to see a lot of very entertaining slo-mo finishing blows. Like p-p-p-PAWWunchhh...

Good question, I feel slightly better now.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Nose surgery to remove polyps and correct a septum deviation. I'm getting out of the hospital today. It's going to take a few weeks for me to fully heal but being able to breathe through the nose again is luxurious.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 4 months ago (2 children)

After a long recovery I can finally start working out again

Also I have an amazing dog that I love and I'm thankful for him every day.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 4 months ago

My union renegotiated our contract and it means I have enough coverage to get a crown for this tooth I just broke, the coverage literally doubled.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago

My dad has had good health news recently and is now retired. All this wasn't a given just a few years ago... I feel happy and relieved through him. I hope you do too

[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago (2 children)

My BF and I are getting married soon! :D

I'm super excited. We live across borders, so I will finally be able to live with him. So much more time for fun stuff like camping and climbing, and even just normal stuff like reading or cooking together.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 months ago (7 children)

Two years ago I had to miss a biennial hacker conference I'd been going to (and helping out on) every other year for over two decades, something I love a lot and always deeply look forward to attending, because I'd finally got hit with my first case of COVID. The virus hit me hard, and not only did it make me miss the conference but it left me with heavy long COVID effects which knocked down my ability to do a lot of things for a long time.

Last week I had a checkup with my doctor who congratulated me on how much I've come back from the long COVID. That hacker conference is happening again next week, and I'm extremely excited to see everyone again! (I'll be masked, of course!)

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