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Like, obviously around here you don't subscribe to a subreddit, were not on reddit.

What about referring to the Original Poster as OP?

What about etiquette like marking edited posts and comments with "Edit: added words or explanations of edits made"?

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[–] [email protected] 50 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

Most of those things came long before Reddit and still apply to just being online in general. Only the word "subreddit" is unique to Reddit, as well as certain in-jokes ("when does the narwhal bacon?"). Really thinking about it, I'm not sure Reddit was ever really unique at all. It just has a lot of users.

[–] kryllic 26 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

And to be fair, that whole narwhal bacon thing was a weird fad of internet culture as a whole, not just on Reddit (think pre-2014 internet imo)

[–] [email protected] 17 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

The narwal bacon meme itself was specifically reddit, as it was a deeply cringey joke post someone made as a shibollith to try to identify redditors in the real world.

It was the perfect mix of very awkward, very stupid, and weirdly preening that got people to "ironically" use it for a bit on reddit, which then spread wider.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 7 months ago

In this moment

I am euphoric

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Remember everyone using "le"? And the site-dominating obsession with beards that lasted for months? And the war between cat lovers and dog lovers?

It was all so inane.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Pretty sure the "le" thing came outta 4chan.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

Albino Black sheep I always figured. Stemming from the line "I am le tired" from the end of the world flash video. So early 2000s likely

(Just realized if so, that would make it older than the iPhone.. damn time has gone by).

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

"Well, take a nap ZEN FIRE ZE MISSILES!"

Classic.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

I like turtles?

[–] [email protected] 47 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I love the lack of karma farming here. Keeping votes local / contained is a small but important change.

And yes, I know there are work-arounds for people who care about that shit, but making it non-default sets the tone.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Isn't it a lot harder to tell when people are just trolls? You have to look at multiple comments to see all the negative points they typically get to realize it's not with your time to respond to them

[–] [email protected] 10 points 7 months ago

It is harder, but in my experience so far I wouldn't say it's a lot harder. That might change if we had a sudden influx of thousands of new users

[–] [email protected] 27 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

You can skip subs, flairs and the gamification aspect (trophys, medals, gold, ...)

Most people need to learn about communities and instances. Rest should be similar. OP, comment, post, DMs, ...

Etiquette varies. Some people here like people who are nice to each other. Of course this doesn't always work.

I also pay attention to upvote people who reply to me. And I keep shitposting to the dedicated communities.

The dynamics and technical details can be different in detail. Some things don't work as smooth (yet). And we're only a few people here compared to the big commercial platforms.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

lemmy should have post tags for better filtering, the other things are just like you said.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 7 months ago (4 children)

Comms = subs, though it'll take a while to catch on I guess.

OP is OP. Though even in Reddit it was somewhat interchangeable between the person who created the post, and the person who posted the top comment of whatever discussion is ongoing.

Edit etiquette should stay. Ninja edits are rude, unless you're fixing typos. Even edits made instantly after a post/comment can sometimes show up much later than the original post due to federation latency.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Comms

I don't think I have seen anyone use that here.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 7 months ago

Same, and I don't like it, idk why exactly but I think because too many other things already get referred to as such.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I've been using "muni / munis" and only once has it caused any confusion.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 months ago

That probably would have taken a second for me without context. I don't know if there is a good short for community. Or if one is even needed, really.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 7 months ago (2 children)

OP is far older than reddit. Older than 4chan even. It's not site specific.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago

I didn't mean to imply it was. I'm just replying in the context of OP's post

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

This is interesting. I've only spent time on reddit and then here, so I didn't know it was a well known thing on other sites

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Yeah I've been using it since long before Reddit existed. Yes, I'm old.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Where does comms = subs? Never heard it used in that context

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago

comms = communities

but since subs is short for subreddits, they're kinda the same if you get what I'm saying here

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago (3 children)

I do wish we had that three minute window reddit had where you cold fix typos or something without it appearing as edited. Happens to me so often but I usually jsut fix them.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago
[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

That depends on your instance. Kbin gives that grace period, or at least when viewing from Kbin. It should be easy enough to implement, if the instance owner is willing.

Edit: this is an edit to demonstrate.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Except with federation, there's no guarantee the edit promulgates as fast as the original.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Maybe they could delay the federation in the first place for a couple mins?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

Or maybe we could just proofread our shit.

Probably not though; I myself am terrible about that.

[–] CameronDev 6 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Its way to late to fix, but instance => community and subreddit => subcommunities would have kept some of the nomenclature similar.

And instances being a community seems to be how beehaw and others want to work anyway.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 months ago (1 children)

'instance' is already a term used by other federated platforms though. it wouldnt be any less confusing

[–] CameronDev 6 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Well, yeah, like I said, way to late to change. Programmers are notoriously bad at naming things, but once named, its hard to change.

It might have made the "Which instance do I join?" question a bit more intuitive and self-answerable if it was instead:

Q: Which community do I join? A: Oh, obvious, the one that seems to match my IRL community/values.

(If its not obvious, I am also a programmer, so any opinions on usability and human behaviour are also completely detached from reality 😄)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[–] CameronDev 3 points 7 months ago

Not sure I agree with me, but ok :)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago

The selfhosted community is tight here

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago (1 children)

sub______

is from Reddit and we should replace sublemmy with something else

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

It seems that Communities is the standard here

[–] [email protected] -3 points 7 months ago (2 children)

I really wish people would stop talking about R.

Fucking get over it

[–] [email protected] 11 points 7 months ago (1 children)

like it or not but lemmy and reddit are obviously simililar platforms, so expect parallels to be drawn

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

I choose not

1000000043

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago (1 children)

"I don't want to read any more about Reddit... so I'll click into this thread which is obviously about Reddit."

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

"I don't like this comment, so I'll just reply to it"

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I don't mind the comment, I just feel like I have to point out you're doing this to yourself and you do actually have the option of taking your hand off the hotplate.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Attempting to shame someone for having a dissenting opinion is the most Reddit thing ever.

If you want echo chambers, dog whistles, group think, and brigading, then go back there.

Here however, you're allowed to express dislike.

I dislike when people like you try to make this place more like Reddit, because Reddit is and was a shithole.