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[–] [email protected] 31 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I learned to combat this with 3 simple questions:

  1. What kind of job do you do? (Or study)
  2. Where do you live?
  3. Do you have any kids, dog,...

Be interrested in their answers and add some simple follow-up questions that show you are listening. Add some content of your own as a follow-up.

Posing that first question can be a bit weird, but the rest is as simple as it sounds.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Be interested in their answers

Yeah, so, that's where I usually drop the ball. What if I'm just... not?

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 months ago (1 children)

That's where I rely on "fake it till you make it".

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 months ago (1 children)

What if, completely hypothetically of course, I'm pushing 40 and only moderately depressed but still prefer the company of my dogs to most people?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 months ago (1 children)

What kind of dogs do you have?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Sweet, dumb, wonderful shelter mutts.

What are we using to post videos to Lemmy at this point? It still doesn't seem to work from Voyager.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

Have you taught them any tricks?