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Yeah, the OOP is a serious cope. They are basically saying "nothing is ever a failure in the world of unicorn sprinkles, weeeeee!" They are invalidating people's negative emotions about failure by trying to reframe it - but this is the behavior of narcissists who never want to admit they have failed at anything.
It's okay to fail. It sucks. It hurts. It happens. That's life. Accept it, learn from it, and move on.
It's a failure if it's your experience and you think you failed. You don't get to say others failed if they feel otherwise about their own experience.
You have no idea what narcissism means even if you're using it in the colloquial form with is almost meaningless at this point. A narcissist wouldn't put the question up for debate.
You pretending you get to decide how others should feel about anything is fucking ridiculous.
If someone says "I really wanted to keep my bakery open but the books didn't balance" it's a failed business. If someone says "I had a goal to get a book published but I could never get it accepted" they're a failed writer.
Yes, they could have just gotten bored or stressed or retired or life happened, but that's not the same thing. When someone set out to do something with their best effort but couldn't, they failed.
Failing to do something isn't shameful and it doesn't devalue you. It doesn't even mean you'll never be able to do it (go start a new business, write another book, have a happy second marriage). You're only a failure if you let yourself be one, nobody can tell you to feel anything.
OOPs post isn't healthy because it validates the fear of failure with mental gymnastics. Sometimes you fail and you just gotta work through it, you can't put your all into something and shrug it off at the same time.