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It's all about your own perception.
Appearently you have become programmed with the false truths that the things you mention is what matters in life.
Fuck, there are tons of people who hate their jobs and their partners, and they suffer every day because they can't get out of it. They need the money or the partner because otherwise they can't pay their bills or for some other reason. People put up with so much misery to not be alone, it's ridiculous.
From where I'm standing, you are free of all these things. The point of your life is not to find some woman. That's all bullshit man. Stop thinking like that.
Here is what you do. Start going to the gym. Exercise. That's step one for feeling better about yourself (at least for almost all people it is).
Cook your own meals. Avoid fast-food (but eat it sometimes, I do). Stop as much of your sugar intake as possible and just have some sugar here and there.
It's just easy steps but it starts with the body, then the spirit will feel better also.
If you can do this, you feel feel better in a month, guaranteed.
I think you are putting women on some pedestal here. Which is easy to do if you haven't been with one. But they have lots of flaws and can be very annoying, just like men do.
I quit the gym already long ago, it depresses me and I'm broke