You're right. Sorry, I should've mentioned I was thinking of particular types of situations where the person has the mentality of "oh man, I don't know, it'd be cool to know that" and proceeds to not do anything about it.
Or like you say, having strong convictions about something but not having done the reading themselves. I don't mind listening to opposing opinions if they actually believe them and didn't just regugitate something they heard on foxnews.
I think in most cases, curiosity is what drove human development to such heights. And to just stop it at "oh yeah, I dunno hey" takes a very particular type of person... A type of person I just can't understand!
Thanks for pointing that out though, I hadn't quite fully figured out how to articulate what I was trying to say!
I generally feel like it's worth it. Even if that worth is only validating why you stopped chatting to that person in the first place.
Especially because I have no irl-linked social media, Im often initiating contact... But I like checking in on random people every few years or so, you never know, you might brighten someone's day; develop connections you might not have with acquaintances because you've both changed; or at the very least, reminding yourself that there's no loss if you don't talk to that person ever again!
I'd rather be regretting my interaction than to regret not interacting at all.