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I like to break my goals down into a sort of ladder with the eventual goal at the top, but smaller achievements on the way. So to that end my bucket list includes such gems as:

  • Go out for a meal alone
  • Buy a fancy ice lolly without feeling guilty about it
  • Climb up the nearby hill without stopping for a break
  • Reach out to for a catchup
  • Finish reading the whole Discworld book series (I never did read the last one, iykyk)
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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Take a trip to Washington DC and stay there for a week. Just take in the museums.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

i could spend a week just at the library.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Sounds chill!

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Living past 35, which IS not easy being trans.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

"Make it to 40th birthday" is also on my list so I can relate. We can do this!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

37 and non-conforming here. A good support network is worth its weight in gold!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

36 ans and stabbed 2years ago. LGBT "community" IS a joke. Trans women are alone.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Shit, I’m cis but live in Texas. I’ll be thrilled if I make it to 40.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Imagine being black, a women, Muslim,disabled,or gay...

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I can’t even imagine what other folks go through. I’m a white, straight, married, male, and I honestly have it tough. It pains me to know that, in the grand scheme of things, I have it easy.

[–] mercator_rejection 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Can I ask why that is the case? I guess I hadn't heard that it was so difficult before

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Stress levels effecting health and targeted violence are what I assume theyre talking about

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

absurdly high suicide rate doesn't help the average either

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Violence, hΓ’te evrywhere,no acess to housing or job?

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

On one hand this makes me sad for you, because snow is excellent. But on the other that does mean you live somewhere nice and warm, and as I sit here rolled up in my electric blanket it doesn't sound so bad.

I hope you get to not only see snow, but experience the satisfying cronch of frolicking in an unspoiled patch :D

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Go to the sauna and treat myself on a cold winter evening. But I have a bit of a cold, so I better wait a bit.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah I'm sick also, think that's why I've been looking at my list, as a way to live vicariously through Future Healthy Me. Plenty more cold winter evenings to come, anyway, there's no rush.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I have a coupon that's valid 'til the end of the year ;-)

Edit: Get well...

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Get enough of an emergency fund going that covers my rent and utilities for 6 months.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

One for everyone's list there I reckon. Good luck!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Pay yourself first.

10% non-negotiable, right into a high interest savings account before anything else. if you can set it up to deposit automatically that's ideal.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

High yield savings is a HUGE thing here! We live in great times for your money to make you more money while still being risky free.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

See lava. I have a trip to Hawaii coming up :D

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Ooh that's a good one

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Careful though, the floor is lava

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Watch all of Star Trek DS9

I've watched lots of Star Trek including some episodes of Deep Space 9 but never had the chance to see it all from beginning to end.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

You can do it, I believe in you!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Experience a picturesque white Christmas. This is coming from someone in California where it's Decembe 4th right now and 76 degrees. Never experienced snow.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

we have snow dude. like you don't have to leave the state. California is huge and it snows here

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Read the shepherds crown. It’s cathartic and while I’m sad the series ended it was the perfect note to end on.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Everyone says the same thing. I am going to do it, just rereading some of the older ones that I've not had chance to in years and then I think it'll naturally go that way.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ok cool, I know some people refuse to read it

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I'm just a coward. But that's why it's on the list :D

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

Hard part is crossing it off your list after you're done.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Good sleep habits...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Learn how to make the pork belly bao I got at Covent garden, it taunts me.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

USPSA C class or better.

I need to spend a lot more time dry firing and working on my draw.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I have some really basic stuff like contacting aged family members before they die. I'm doing pretty badly at that one.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Pet a wolf (possibly a tame one at one of those American sanctuaries where you can pet a tame wolf)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Get busy! You could do all but one of those in a single day. Best of luck!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Shut off my damn phone after dinner.

I would be sleeping way better if I just shut it down.

But I am not biased, I am equally an asshole to myself as I am to others.

Relevant mene: Unrequited love

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

No, would just dilute the entire point of the bucket list.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The entire point of a bucket list is to have high-stakes unachievable goals?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Not unachievable, but they should be pretty high-stakes.

OP's examples are more of a to-do list.