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We're in the 21st century, and the vast majority of us still believe in an utterly and obviously fictional creator deity. Plenty of people, even in developed countries with decent educational systems, still believe in ghosts or magic (e.g. voodoo). And I--an atheist and a skeptic--am told I need to respect these patently false beliefs as cultural traditions.

Fuck that. They're bad cultural traditions, undeserving of respect. Child-proofing society for these intellectually stunted people doesn't help them; it is in fact a disservice to them to pretend it's okay to go through life believing these things. We should demand that people contend with reality on a factual basis by the time they reach adulthood (even earlier, if I'm being completely honest). We shouldn't be coddling people who profess beliefs that are demonstrably false, simply because their feelings might get hurt.

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[–] [email protected] 92 points 11 months ago (10 children)

As a Taoist, I don’t believe in any deity and my beliefs boil down to letting people be who they are meant to and want to be and supporting them as much as I can in their personal journeys. That’s not an outdated or childish belief system. You’re conflating Abrahamic religions and mysticism with all religion and you don’t seem to have invested much time in understanding religion as a tool and concept outside of those areas.

Respecting people’s cultures and religion boils down to respecting people - if you believe that people shouldn’t be generally respected then your views are no more developed than that of a selfish child and you are the thing you’re complaining about.

[–] [email protected] 42 points 11 months ago (20 children)

You're technically right, but the vast majority of religious people fit OPs description and you know it. They're not talking about people like you.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I actually disagree on the majority. As someone who grew up in the Christian south I’m well aware of the misguided beliefs people can have but a majority of religious practitioners are not extremists and are much more malleable on individual topics and beliefs than many in the atheist community would care to accept - I say this as someone who considered themselves an atheist for a time but stopped when I realized religion has many benefits when used as a tool and any community, including atheists, is prone to having toxic extremism that makes the whole seem worse than it is. Take Islam for example, there are two major divisions of Islam, Sunni and Shia, and most people in the west think the extremist views of the Shia are what most Muslims believe but in all actuality they only make up about 15% of Muslims. The extremists are what get attention, not the majority of folks that use their religion and culture as a tool for living lives they think are good, beneficial or fruitful.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

There's Taoism as philosophy and as religion.

As a philosophy you are correct, there's no need to have magical thinking.

But pretending that magical thinking is somehow only an 'Abrahamic' thing and not part of Taoism is wild, and ignores Taoist texts like A Chart of the Magic Art of Being Invisible from the Han period when the beliefs were promoted under the false promises of acquiring magical powers through commitment to its teachings.

Maybe you don't believe that cultivating a practice of physical alchemy is going to let you turn invisible or become immortal, but it wouldn't be true to say that the umbrella of Taoism doesn't include those beliefs.

The Abrahamic Sadducees in antiquity didn't believe there was life after death or that a God was watching and caring what people did or didn't do. But their existence doesn't negate the Pharisees believing that bringing animals for the priests to slaughter and eat was a cosmic exchange for committing sin. Similarly, less theistic practice of Taoism doesn't mean that the broader religion isn't filled with supernatural beliefs.

And no, I agree with OP that there's no need to respect the belief that you'll be able to turn invisible.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

That's a huge logical fallacy: one can respect "people' or even a person themselves without being required to respect a belief system or an individual's choice to follow its dogma. Secondly, you're jumping to a number of conclusions on your own, and come off far more judgy than a Taoist, by your definition, should be. Maybe, go touch some grass, tiger.

Lastly, try anti-theism on for size, instead. All gods are a distraction from humanity itself, and are all tools for control. Full stop.

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[–] [email protected] 61 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (16 children)

Respect is for people, not ideas or beliefs.

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[–] [email protected] 59 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (15 children)

“All right," said Susan. "I'm not stupid. You're saying humans need... fantasies to make life bearable."

REALLY? AS IF IT WAS SOME KIND OF PINK PILL? NO. HUMANS NEED FANTASY TO BE HUMAN. TO BE THE PLACE WHERE THE FALLING ANGEL MEETS THE RISING APE.

"Tooth fairies? Hogfathers? Little—"

YES. AS PRACTICE. YOU HAVE TO START OUT LEARNING TO BELIEVE THE LITTLE LIES.

"So we can believe the big ones?"

YES. JUSTICE. MERCY. DUTY. THAT SORT OF THING.

"They're not the same at all!"

YOU THINK SO? THEN TAKE THE UNIVERSE AND GRIND IT DOWN TO THE FINEST POWDER AND SIEVE IT THROUGH THE FINEST SIEVE AND THEN SHOW ME ONE ATOM OF JUSTICE, ONE MOLECULE OF MERCY. AND YET—Death waved a hand. AND YET YOU ACT AS IF THERE IS SOME IDEAL ORDER IN THE WORLD, AS IF THERE IS SOME...SOME RIGHTNESS IN THE UNIVERSE BY WHICH IT MAY BE JUDGED.

"Yes, but people have got to believe that, or what's the point—"

MY POINT EXACTLY.

With all the deserving credits to the late and great Terry Pratchett.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 11 months ago

YOU NEED TO BELIEVE IN THINGS THAT AREN'T TRUE. HOW ELSE CAN THEY BECOME?

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[–] [email protected] 58 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Unpopular Take:

Having superstition, religion and pseudo-science persisting and thriving in your society turns into systemic problems eventually. Including Genocide.

Why? Because it teaches people anti-empiricism, emotional "reasoning" and essentialising people. All these are the basis for every reactionary thought, conservative brainrot, religious extremism and eventually denying reality.

Studies back this up. Most of the alt-right are very religious, "skeptic" of science or inclined to mysticism. (Remember Ivermectin and Faith Healing? I do.) This shit even goes back to the OG Nazis in the Third Reich. They loved their mystical stuff and pseudo-science.

Why thing thinking pattern leads down the drain is very simple.There is no fundamental difference between between:

People cant be together because of their sign and
People cant be together because of their skin color

Both times the logic of this methode is the same. No truth, only vibes.

Why we should keep either is beyond me.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Agree, and I believe ideas like yours are more popular than you may think.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Its an unpopular take because people dont like it when you point out that their "healing crystals" might as well well be "sieg-heiling crystals".

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[–] [email protected] 57 points 11 months ago (23 children)

Ah, to be 15 again.
Good times. :)

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[–] [email protected] 55 points 11 months ago

Individual people should be offered initial respect as far as they deserve. You don't have to respect their beliefs but you shouldn't blatantly attack them either.

As an atheist my biggest fear is that I might somehow affect their faith. It's not my place to proselytize atheism nor is it to rip someone's faith away.

[–] [email protected] 45 points 11 months ago (10 children)

Pretty much. I mean if people want to believe and practice various things in their free time, that's fine as long as it doesn't hurt anyone. But religious beliefs should have no place in government or public services.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 11 months ago

And yes, turning your baby into a cutaway craft project because space daddy said so counts as hurting someone.

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[–] [email protected] 36 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (4 children)

Internet atheists, or “message board atheist” are the worst. They’ve managed to change the definition of atheism from simply ‘not believing in deities,’ to ‘generalized hatred of anything that doesn’t support their own personal belief.’

(I’m hoping the irony isn’t lost on anyone here, because to me- that sounds an awful lot like hypocrisy and projection)

True atheism is just not believing in god(s). That’s it. Nothing more. And I say this as a true atheist. So to all you Reddit atheists:

How about you get that smug chip removed from your shoulder and lighten up. We’re all allowed the freedom to believe what we feel to be true. And reserve NO authority to lord it over them - pun fucking intended.

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 11 months ago (5 children)

This post reads like it was written by a Fedora that came to life thanks to an incel's wish.

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yeah especially pseudo science. Like I saw a video on isntagram a while back of a Latin American family in the US whose cat was sick and instead of taking it to the vet they were just rubbing an egg on it? Because apparently the egg will soak up the "bad energy" and make the cat better? And all the comments were telling them to just take it to a fucking vet, and saying what they were doing was animal abuse and the poster was just saying stuff like "This is a traditional remedy, you need to respect our beleifs" no. No we don't.

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Here fucking here, I'm so tired of tiptoeing around Christianity and vaccine ignorance.

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 11 months ago (2 children)

We should respect the other fellow's religion, but in the same sense and to a similar extent that we respect his belief that his children are smart and his wife is beautiful.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Until he gets into politics and tries to write his religion's millennia old moral code into contemporary law.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Respect the human for being an individual human with their own beliefs and ideals.

If they can't respect the same from you, fuck em.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (2 children)

Yes, you're correct. I'm a theist, but I 100% agree that magical thinking and superstition don't have a place in modern society.

The belief that a dead body came back to life and floated into the sky is delusional, and only not seen as mental illness because of its commonality.

Belief that commitment to Eastern practices will let masters hover in the air or turn invisible should be relegated to antiquity.

Beliefs regarding the unknown and immeasurable are one thing, but pretty much every popular religion involves beliefs regarding the measurable that are clearly false, and for it to be socially acceptable to hold those clearly false beliefs opens the door for other magical thinking beliefs like the idea there's lizard people in skin suits running the world or that aliens built the pyramids or that the earth is flat or that drinking magic water can cure cancer.

Society is struggling with its relationship to truth in the age of social media, and I put much of the blame on religion in fostering the environment for BS to thrive.

We really should be less tolerant of beliefs that actively deny measurable reality.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (3 children)

People are ignorant by default.

You have to educate them along and let them choose their own path. Sometimes they wonder off the path of ideal development. It's basic statistics.

We should demand that people contend with reality on a factual basis

You can stand at an open door and beg them to walk through it but you can't shove them.

We shouldn't be coddling people who profess beliefs that are demonstrably false, simply because their feelings might get hurt.

Meritocracy is dangerous. You cannot punish people for stunted development, it does no good. You can really only reward them for developing and contributing to the well being of society.

This is psychology 101 level stuff. If you want a society based on science, then use the we science have.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 11 months ago (20 children)

I think that often, people use the word respect in a different way when it comes to magical thinking. Religious people often use the word to mean exempt from examination, or beyond reproach. While it's undoubtedly disrespectful to subject a person to an assault on their beliefs for no good reason, when those beliefs begin to play a role in decisions that will affect others, they can and should be challenged; people oughtn't be shocked to learn that if they bring their beliefs into the public discourse around a policy decision, they'll be subject to the same level of scrutiny as any other way of thinking or approaching a problem.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 11 months ago (11 children)

Well, you've definitely proven that dumb religious idiots, with the usual PRATT arguments, are here in the fediverse, at least, based on this comment section.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 11 months ago (10 children)

You can't humiliate someone into changing their mind, especially something so critical to their identity. Minds are changed slowly, with love. With conversations and questions that make them think about it later. If you dunk on someone, they'll just remember how mad you made them what an asshole you are. If you tactfully ask them questions that expose their own hypocrisy, you might just trigger a shower thought epiphany.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Another unpopular opinion: despite being popular, religious bigotry is still bigotry.

[–] [email protected] 33 points 11 months ago

BELIEVING someone is an idiot for believing in a sky daddy and not respecting their belief is NOT bigotry.

ACTING to curtail or limit those people's rights BECAUSE of it IS bigotry.

There's a difference.

I have no interest in keeping people from believing whatever they want. But I'm under no obligation to respect those beliefs.

Religious freedom isn't the right to avoid criticism.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Hmmm, not sure I agree with your logic. If I fervently disagree with a demonstrably harmful idea with huge social impact like, say, fascism, is that also bigotry? I say that religion is an idea, not an inherent characteristic of a person. It can and should be rejected, just like Germany rejected fascism. Being against a harmful idea and restricting its influence through cultural means like mockery isn't bigotry, it is vigilance against those ideas continuing to spread.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 11 months ago (8 children)

How is respect in this context any different than tolerance?

I think dismissing people based on their beliefs is essentially saying I should only value the opinions(tolerate) of those who agree with me. Taken to the extreme that could easily lead to anyone with 'bad' beliefs being forcibly reeducated. Sound familiar?

[–] [email protected] 16 points 11 months ago (5 children)

I don't think the OP meant to discount opinions of "anyone that disagrees with him" but rather to discount the opinions based in supernatural.

It also doesn't seem to me that the OP is really interested in "forced reeducation" but rather reducing influence - probably through ridicule, deplatforming or similar actions.

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