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I joined Lemmy a few days ago and have been reading around. 90%+ of the content I see, even on non-politics related communities, is political in some way. I have no interest in that, so it’s tiring, especially when it’s inserted in the comments of completely unrelated posts.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Because generally speaking, politics is at the end of the day the single most unfiying thing on earth.

Everyone and everything at every level is directly influenced by politics.

So when you get a bunch of people together on a topic and those people otherwise don't know each other. They are only really able to communicate in passing with one or two things.

Politics and its relation to the topic. Or a narrow opinion on the topic. Maybe a joke or some other passing comment if you push it.

It's what small talk is. And Lemmy like reddit and any other major general community is mostly goanna be small talk.

The more frequent commenters may learn each other or have more meaningful communication but that's goanna be rare. And realistically any meaningful conversation is goanna be sparked either via a disagreement or agreement from the aforementioned poltical view or opinion shared.

Functionally if you don't want to engage with politics at any level for any reason no matter what. Then you basically need to just stop using anonymous or impersonal forms of communication. Which basically means stop using public forums as a whole.

Cause it's politics or the weather basically, and since no one is goanna talk about the weather your left with politics for small talk.

That or stick very strictly to forums that deal in a extremely EXTREMELY narrow topic. Like cat pictures with out captions.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 hours ago

It's always been political, you were just in a more comfortable for you political space. Typically you don't notice the politics when that's just life and your own values.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

Lot of good advice here about curation, thats definitely an option to leverage your subscribed feed.

Another option, is to remove yourself from the largest server (lemmy world), look at your options on other instances, theres hundreds. The label to the right of usernames should denote what instance people are connecting from.

Some examples are blahaj, midwest.social, sopuli, feddit....

The links below have lists of a lot of the available instances,

Lemmyverse.net

Fedidb

Advantages of Choosing a Smaller Server

The experience of the 'Local' tab seems to be genuinely different from Lemmy World.

Lemmy World probably doesn't look too different whether you sort by the 'all' tab or 'local' tab, so you really only have the 'subscribe' tab to find and hone your niche on the network.

Going for a smaller, but active in its own right, instance means you suddenly have a 'local' tab that is highly differentiated from the wider lemmy network, andgoing along with that its often a bit less political.

I'd use my own as an example here, but we've just had a major election in Australia, so its been pretty political lately, i'm expecting that to subside now that the chooks are counted.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 hours ago

It's because Lemmy mainly consists of hyper-frustrated leftists who treat it as their safe space echo chamber.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago

First: allow me to welcome all new members of LEMMY.

Seriously, whatever flavor you are federating from. And pardon me I have not read this entire thread of replies but I hope it is full of nothing but welcome!

Not all of Lemmy is political. A lot is though, so I can imagine that it may seem charged.

But what’s really happening here is that everything is… transparent. That’s why I’m here. If there is bias, it’s visible.

The trouble with the corporate alternatives is that their hidden bias is: control. Pardon the politics even here, but the fact is our society has never reflected a situation where one group exercises dictatorial control over almost everyone with complete immunity.

Because with all their creepy animated emoji things and predictive analytics they are putting folks asleep. Wake, work, isolate, Sleep. This is the bias of corporate social media. Emphasis on isolate.

So… welcome…

And enjoy. It’s nice to be a part of a place where people are more awake.

But under all interactions should be the vibe that we all in this together.

So welcome. Enjoy. Find you place and your people. Ignore posts that alarm or annoy you.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

Try piefed.social -- on onboarding it asks if you want to see politics.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 hours ago

First, That's what happens when you're living under a dictator.

Second, even in normal times, everything is political. How much you get paid, and how your boss treats you, and how banks work, and how the roads look, and everything else you see is the result of a political choice.

[–] expr 29 points 4 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 hours ago

Especially now.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

Despite everything people here says, you're probably not going to get a community without politics

Lemmy was born from politics, grew from politics and the largest communities are about politics

Your best bet is to leave if you're sick of it (Lemmy is essentially stuck with politics forever) or get used to it and use some filters to prevent the worst

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago

Filter out the politics, and join a bunch of other forums instead.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 4 hours ago (3 children)

[email protected] is no politics! We're a trans+ inclusive women's only group though.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

????

Trans rights aren't political?

Women's rights isn't political?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago

Just existing as a woman or trans person isn't political. No one ever says this about existing as a man.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 hours ago

They're only political because one side insists somehow they are.

Left-handed rights aren't political.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Thanks for this, joined! :)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago

Glad to have you 😃

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

Its not. We have cat pics as well.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

We need more active guitar forums, but it's still better than Reddit has become.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

Well I would push for a gunpla and modelmaking sub, but... people all over the world are dying to conservative political stances and authoritarianism.

So, do we talk about building plastic models or the death of innocents? Some would say both, but many of us know it's hard to focus on hobby topics when it seems like Revelations might kick off at any given moment.

"Look what I made!-

PALESTINIAN GENOCIDE

RAMPANT FASCISM

"n-nevermind..."

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 hours ago

Welcome to 2025

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 hours ago

remove all of the news communities from your feed and try again

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 hours ago

Keyword filters my guy

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago

Well you can filter them out, ya

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago

Welcome to the internet.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 12 hours ago

Everything is political. You're just not aware of how the things you like are political.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 11 hours ago

This is a time where it's hard to be away from politics. I switched to all tech news after the U.S. election, and the tariffs are strongly influencing the supply and demand, and the convict is skewing crypto ponzi schemes in his personal favor which has a lot of influence on hardware. He has Musk that's trying to influence hard on AI which also impacts a lot of our hardware.

Can't fucking get away from it, really.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 14 hours ago
  1. Well, a lot of people jumped ship from other platforms because of politics. So they're gonna be here.

  2. It's a time where politics are fucking with all of us, so it's topical.

  3. reddit still exists and has a larger base, so if you want to talk about stardew valley, just by the nature of numbers that's where they're gonna gather.

  4. There are a lot of "lurkers" here, not a lot of posters. Seriously, notice how often The Picard Maneuver, or Stamets keeps popping up.

God I hate to be the guy who says this especially because I am ABSOLUTELY being hypocritical right now, but you gotta be the change you want.

[–] [email protected] 44 points 16 hours ago

I don't want to be political, but the government decided that me existing should be illegal. So now me posting about fashion or makeup or whatever is automatically political now.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

lemmynsfw.world doesn't have that much politics ..

[–] [email protected] 8 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I mean, they have political stances, for example, they think people should be able to access porn, trans and gay people are ok, cartoon porn is not the same as CP, and similar things.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

But Loli porn is the same a CP there

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 hours ago

cartoon porn is not the same as CP

yeah. not all cartoon/hentai is loli stuff.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

This is a link sharing platform. Primarily links to news articles.

Don't conflate politics to reading the news. If you have no interest in reading the news, you probably shouldn't be on a link sharing site.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Not true at all. On the other site you can curate subs so your feed consists entirely of puppies and pottery tips.

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[–] [email protected] 45 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

Because shit's really fucked up right now and needs to be fixed.

You're like one of those people in a world war, "Why's everyone so political*?*"

Bitch, politics affects everything. And everything's fucked up. Therefore, politics everywhere. Wanna have it not be everywhere? Fix it then. Don't complain that everybody's pissed off about everything and act like you're confused, you aren't that dumb. Nobody's that dumb.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 13 hours ago

Block communities you don't want to see. Browse and look for communities that aren't currently hitting your front page and subscribe. Yesterday, I discovered one that was right up my alley that I hadn't seen after nearly two years on Lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I also did not come here for politics.

I came here as an alternative to reddit.

What I did to fix it was to find similar Lemmy communities to those subreddits. I also set up filtering to block out key words, names, etc.

It makes it a lot more bearable.

One thing I've noticed, Lemmy and Reddit are run in a large part by content bots when it comes to non-politics. There are some exceptions. I recommend you make peace with the bots and appreciate the content (all the while contributing content yourself of course).

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (3 children)

I also did not come here for politics.

I came here as an alternative to reddit.

Abandoning corporate enshittification and censorship is politics though.

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[–] [email protected] 36 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Lemmy suffers from the "alt-tech curse" in that since there is perfectly serviceable, normie friendly tech, for someone to come to the alternative you have to be not so normie.

Gab, Parler, Voat back in the day, Mastodon and Lemmy, bluesky, etc are all part of the same phenomenon of micro-exodi from established sites due to fitting poorly with existing moderation which, given the fact normies still use the sites, means we're always looking at extremists of some kind.

Whether it's the tankies on lemmy.ml, or the progs on bluesky, or the tradcons on parler and gab, it's always some group being told "if you don't like it here go make your own" and them doing it.

The problem is this makes these environments extremely off-putting to normies as every single motherfucker on each of these platforms has at least a Bachelor's degree in scaring the hoes.

The reality is, if you want normie content, you're gonna find it on platforms used by normies.

Lemmy is too niche to have karma farming bots reposting the same shit every hour, so cat videos etc are in short supply, and most of the people who do participate here have scary levels of politics brainrot.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 14 hours ago

We're all kind of living in hell because of our disfunctional system and fearful countrymen. So we're just kinda trying to cope together by commiserating.

[–] [email protected] 53 points 19 hours ago

This is a time of political crisis. The US government is upending decades of alliances and economics. The right wing is globally on the rise, and that means people's lives are in danger. The environment is becoming more unpredictable and less supportive for humanity.

There's a lot of important political shit to talk about. If we were living in a boring utopia, there'd be less, probably.

Also, what do you even consider "political"? Some people will tell you that a story about a man and a woman getting married isn't political, but a story about two men getting married is. That's a really low quality analysis there.

[–] Piatro 225 points 23 hours ago (10 children)

There's probably a correlation between people who are aware enough of reddit's practices and policies to want to switch to Lemmy and people who are engaged in or by political discussion.

[–] [email protected] 91 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

I'd say lemmy has a stronger "fuck the system" vibe, whatever the topic. Privacy, trans rights, environmental issues, financial oligarchy...

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (1 children)

You privilege is showing.

Whenever someone claims to be “apolitical”, or wants something to “not be political”, is because they are looking at it from a position of privilege where the status quo doesn't hurt or challenges them. They also can't see the oppression, hurt or risk that said thing exerts on others, minorities, or social pariahs.

Non-political is a mythical creature. It exists as a safe haven to lure the insensitive into apathetic inaction. Nothing is apolitical because existing as a human being is itself political.

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