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I would love to hear stories about how you came up with whatever unique name you call your SO. Nothing graphic and don’t doxx yourself, I just think some nice stories like that would be fun for everyone in these ridiculous times.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

Not sure if it counts as it's not really a pet name, but when one of us is looking for the other, we make dinosaur noises. The query has an upward inflection ("raahhhh?") and the response has a downward inflection ("rahh!").

At first it was just around the house. Now it's in public too.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago

Yes! We donr have pet names either, but we have this dumb way to walk, where we sway in same rythm like penguins.

Its dumb and silly, but when we do it we know we are having a good time.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago

I meow to find my husband and he will meow back.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago

That is awesome!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

We "caw" like crows, but haven't evolved to do it in public yet hahaha

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I'm Sweet Potato.

We hadn't really decided on any pet names yet, and while intending to say sweet pea, she accidentally said sweet potato and it stuck.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

That's super cute!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

Your name isn't Amity is it?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Is there a story behind it that you can share?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

I’m a geek, my wife claimed I love my Wi-Fi more than her (in a playful way) so I said, I love you just as much as my Wi-Fi…. Called her my Wi-Fi… Then it just kinda stuck.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

I do the same 😄

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Yes. But you have to understand - to my mind, the purpose of a pet name is to entertain me, while mildly annoying her, by being unforgivably twee.

I call her my little Smoddy-Dimble.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

My pet name has become Aqua from konosuba somehow haha

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Hopefully not because you're that upset all the time!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

Haha, I think it's my ditzy nature. I get called it anytime I forget something or cause a mishap.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

You just made me remember how I called her "little star" for years, after the Beau Taplin poem..

No clue why I stopped. I'm going to start back up, and see what she thinks :)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

Awwww. I’m sure she will appreciate it!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Draakje, which is Dutch for tiny dragon. Because she is cute and feisty. And can, when in dire straits, kick open a sturdy locked door.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I like this! How is it pronounced phonetically?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I tried to figure it out but I am not smart enough to figure out the phonetic alphabet. But basically drrr then a long aaaa and a kje sound.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

Thank you for trying! I didn’t mean to give you homework. I’m just very interested in other languages. I think your pet name is very sweet, thanks for sharing!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

It's the first half of his online username but with the first vowel replaced with oo

Like if I was called "tooken" lol

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

My SO and me loved this story and have adopted calling each other with the flock call "Trevor"

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheCloaca/comments/tn37ev/aitc_for_wanting_to_be_with_my_flock/

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

That was a hilarious story, thank you!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

My family calls him Mickey. My aunt doesn't speak English and couldn't quite get his name right so now he's just Mickey, like the mouse.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago