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sweaty partner

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There are literally no flaws with either of those smells

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Smelling freshly baked bread is the "seeing a water bottle cold enough to be sweating on a hot day while thirsty" of being hungry

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Oh yes that is literally always good

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Bromine. It’s what they treat the water with on the Pirates of the Caribbean ride at Disneyland, and the smell puts my mind on vacation

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Stinky dogs.

They smell like friendship

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My grandmother's closet - old wood, old clothes, and mothballs

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

I got a brief flash of a Ren and Stimpy close-up of a nostril sucking in mothballs, from reading this comment.

But jokes aside, I can imagine that smell becoming a core memory down the road and will hit with instant nostalgia whenever you smell something similar.

I remember the smell of my Grandmother's house every time I hear the song Teardrop by Massive Attack. I'm 9 years old, and I'm watching MTV, sitting on the living room carpet.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)
  1. The smell in the air after a rain on a warm spring day.
  2. The smell in the air of wood smoke on a freaking cold winter day.
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

That first one is called petrichor

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Diesel fuel is a pretty awesome smell 🔥

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diesel exhaust

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Chlorine and florine

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I love the smell of grains being unloaded from a truck into a silo.

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The air on a crisp Halloween dusk back in 1988.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Skunk. From a very safe distance, of course. But I love it when you can smell one, somewhere nearby.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Stockmar crayons.

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Creosote on a hot summer day.
Reminds me of the amusement park when I was little. There were a lot of railroad ties used as retaining walls there.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago

Pine and fir needles.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago

Baking bread. The smell right after a summer shower. Books. Diesel exhaust on a cold day. Don't ask on that last one, it's weird I know, but I love it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

My girlfriend's cooking

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Napalm in the morning.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago

Campfire, and the smell of woodsmoke on clothing the day after.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 2 days ago

A combination of the smells from my grandfather's shed: sawdust, machine oil and petrol from the lawn mower, freshly cut grass, leather, his pipe tabacco, and just a hint of whisky from the bottle he used to keep in there. He had a couple of old, leather, wing-back chairs in there and sometimes at the weekend after mowing the lawn we'd just sit and talk in his shed for a bit while he smoked his pipe and had a wee dram.

Sadly long gone (he died in the late 80s) but I get hints of it occasionally. Sometimes I'll smell maybe the lawnmower smells in my own shed and my brain will fill in the rest and I'll feel small and safe and warm and comfortable just for a moment or two.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I hate the taste of coffee but the smell is heavenly

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

The smell a candle makes when it’s put out.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There are these yellow flowers that grow on vines around here. They smell excellent.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I used to taste honeysuckles as a kid.

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core memory unlocked

[–] [email protected] 34 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (13 children)

Rain, and then a thunderstorm.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Matches (No I'm not a pyromaniac)

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago (3 children)

My chicken after she's been dust bathing, or when it rains.

The dust bathing brings in an earthy note to her natural birdy scent. She just smells like a little nature spirit might, if such things were real.

When it rains, she's usually under cover (though sometimes she gets out into it), but she's picks to the petrichor aroma of rain and soil. She'll carry that scent all evening usually, so when she comes inside and is nestled up next to me, there's the normal bird smell, but also that rich aroma that a gentle rain brings, that usually fades quickly.

Mind you, I also love her normal smell, that almost dusty book, nose tickling smell of bird, colored with the mild earthiness and slight tang that's all chicken.

Luckily, she doesn't mind being sniffed occasionally :)

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago

Corn chip puppy smell!

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Fresh out of the oven bread Coffee Pipe tobacco Cigar shops

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Cheap old books, when the paper turns brittle and yellow or even orange.

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 3 days ago (3 children)

The smell of minced garlic and onion as they're cooking.

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