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good morning! what do you plan to do today?

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I'm gunna finish this coffee, feed the cats and then spend all day in my CNC workshop finishing up a big project, a really kickass frame for an old autographed TOOL album, Opiate, I've been meaning to frame for over 13 years. I might even fire up the smoker and make some ribs. Wife is out of town on a business trip so I'll prolly drink a bunch of beer, fire up some of that sticky-icky, and go through a bunch of my favorite early 90's G-funk albums.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 16 hours ago (3 children)

I'm a welding apprentice and I just started aluminum MIG yesterday. Today will be continued practive. After work, assuming I'm not entirely exhausted, I'll be working on writing a D&D campaign for my players.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I’ve accepted that I will never be able to have the focus to write another campaign again because ADD, but I have a DM file with dozens of NPCs, plot hooks, and locations to add color to a campaign. Let me know if you want anything to drop in

[–] [email protected] 1 points 12 hours ago

Thanks, but I have thr same thing. ChatGPT can be a wonderful tool if used correctly.

I have a d100 list for diseases, curses, mundane magic items, cursed magic items, NPCs, random encounters, and so on.

Whenever my players stray off the campaign, I have plenty to continue the game seamlessly.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 14 hours ago

Thats super cool, good luck with both!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 16 hours ago

Good luck!!!

[–] [email protected] 10 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

If the roads are okay to drive, definitely going out for a hike today. It keeps me sane

[–] [email protected] 3 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

I hope you have a lovely hike! ☺️ I need to get back to going on my walk consistently every day again

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

I wouldn’t last long if I tried for a daily regimen, I’d fail so hard by maybe Saturday of week 1

For me, it’s 1-2 times a week for 3-6 mile day hikes. Gives me something to look forward to later which is important because it’s mildly addictive to get out and away from concrete and people. I savor it more when structured like that and it’s easier to keep the habit going.

Not to say one habit is better or whatever. But maybe if daily isn’t sustainable for you, mix it up

[–] [email protected] 1 points 47 minutes ago* (last edited 46 minutes ago)

Most places you can hike aren't open when I'm awake due to a sleep disorder (I'm only awake at night), so for me small daily walks work best. I don't have very far I can go unless I wanna drive somewhere like a closed shopping center, so I usually walk 15-45 minutes (one loop around my complex is 15min, usually I do one or two loops)

For me the benefit is less getting away from other people, my sleep schedule is very isolating so I have plenty of alone time 😅. But it's good to get out of my head and move my body for a while :)

[–] [email protected] 5 points 14 hours ago

Its bedtime for me but tomorrow I'm hoping to check in with someone about an upcoming date, get through some todos, and think about what I need to do to prepare for said date ☺️

(We're going to an arcade!)

[–] [email protected] 7 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

Goood morning!! Today I ~have~ ~to~ ~work~ ~long~ ಥ_ಥ

(Not sure if every lemmy frontend can display subscript)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 15 hours ago

On my app I just see the tildes.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

by subscript do you mean the two eyes? then yes I can see it. also good luck at work!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 16 hours ago (2 children)
[–] RagnarokOnline 3 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

It reads as strikethrough text on my browser :(

[–] [email protected] 6 points 15 hours ago

Noticed that on Mbin it's indeed strikethrough :( this is how I intended it to look (on voyager app):

[–] [email protected] 3 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (2 children)

Weird, strikethrough is simliar but only by having double of the tildes. ~~Does this~~ ~look the same to~ ~~you~~?

Reference for how it should look like:

[–] RagnarokOnline 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Yes, “Does this look the same to you?” Is strikethrough.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 12 hours ago

If you're on the default Lemmy ui they don't implement it since it's not standard markdown, only some clients do

[–] [email protected] 3 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

sadly in lemmy's own default web UI having space's between the subscript text will just render normal text with tildes on both sides. That's why I put tildes around every word. I recall there was a discussion half a year ago how every app / frontend has a bit different levels of support for markdown.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah, i had to learn that the hard way :/ I think it's because it isn't standard markdown.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

ahh thought that was already part of standard markdown :( hope they extend the markdown definition soon. It's getting crazy how many "flavours" there are!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (1 children)

I hope so too, but knowing how slow important standards are to update (understandably), we may not see it in a while, lol

[–] [email protected] 2 points 14 hours ago

Very true lol!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 16 hours ago

oh then yes I can also see that too.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 16 hours ago

Morning I have work learning Elixir/Phoenix and waiting on an Amazon delivery so I can solve a few issues throughout the day. Last warm day of the week then it gets cold so I'm going to try and get some late night gardening prep done

[–] [email protected] 3 points 14 hours ago

I’m gonna go to the gym, and then study. I have two exams next week 😔

[–] [email protected] 4 points 15 hours ago

I have work and then NOTHING. I am ready to go back to bed lol.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 14 hours ago

I've got one job to do this morning, which should take me a couple of hours to complete. Then I'll do tax prep paperwork for a couple more hours, then go over to my elderly parents and replace one of their toilets.

Once I do that I'll come home and post about my day on DullMensClub

[–] [email protected] 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Be broke and homeless, same as everyday. Gotta figure out how to feed two people all day on less than $2 😔

[–] [email protected] 4 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

If you live in the us and haven't considered making a trip to a food bank that might be a really helpful resource

Sending love from my part of the world to yours my friend 🫂

[–] [email protected] 1 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

I have nowhere to store or cook food 😐

[–] [email protected] 2 points 13 hours ago

That definitely does make things a lot harder, but there may still be some items there that would work well, and if you have to waste extra of some items ultimately that's much better than you and your other mouth going completely hungry- it may be worth taking a look

A loaf of sandwich bread and some peanutbuter isn't amazing but it's calorie dense and both are okay at room temperature

I'm wishing you luck, thats a brutal and soul sucking place to find yourself

[–] RagnarokOnline 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Gotta start the day early with some data scrubbing. One of our ETL processes is fucked and I’ve been tasked with figuring out how to fix it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 14 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (1 children)

Extract, Transform, Load - 3 steps to move data from one place to another

[–] [email protected] 2 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

Interesting, thank you!

Good luck :)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 16 hours ago

Good morning! No specific plans on my side!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Survive. So cold. Such a bad night of sleep. Ugh. I hate mornings like this.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 15 hours ago

I'm so sorry you didn't sleep well. :(