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[–] [email protected] 105 points 1 week ago (2 children)

This is what happens when you fail to reign in scam calls in any way for a decade plus.

[–] [email protected] 42 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Believe it or not, this is a perfect time to leave a voice mail. The not answering spam calls I am normalized with, but the refusal to use voice mail for important calls is inexcusable.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

There's people out there who haven't disabled their voice mail? Wild...

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago

I tried many years ago and couldn't figure it out. I've been hoping it will eventually fill up one day so people just can't leave messages anymore, but as I type that out, I realize that's probably highly unlikely to ever happen.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

My voicemail box is full because I don’t have the heart to clear it, I have a bunch of old messages from my father who passed

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

You should try to get those saved somewhere else, they won't last forever in voicemail and you could lose them.

I wish I had saved some of my father's messages 😔

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago

It’s been like 13 years so either they are there or they’re gone. I can’t bring myself to listen to them, it’s too sad

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 week ago

I would not listen to it. Just send a text

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I don't have a voicemail set up specifically because I don't want to dial in to check it. If you're a real person just text me to get my attention.

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[–] ICastFist 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Dunno about other countries, but in Brazil you have to pay to listen to your voicemail

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

There was a time where spam calls didn't exist? I am pretty sure 2 seconds after Alexander Bell tested the first pair of phones, someone tried to sell him an extended warranty for his car.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

"Mr. Watson, come here. I want to see about extending your horseless carriage's warranty". - Definitely the first ever phone call.

[–] [email protected] 93 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm totally with the hiker on this one, and this illustrates why spam calls are more than just a nuisance.

[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yep. I’m lost, 2% battery left, I aint answering a call from an unknown number. Imagining dying of thirst having wasted your last battery on a telemarketing call.

[–] [email protected] 91 points 1 week ago (11 children)

Why didn’t they text? Cultural norms aside, texts usually go through more easily than calls in spotty areas. But yeah, I’ll take hypothermia and exposure over answering an unknown number any day.

[–] [email protected] 34 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

If you want to be rescued sub to my OnlyFans site.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Modern search and rescue tools actually do send a text with a link to ping your exact location. The text is intended to be customized to the situation so they know it is legit.

Clark, your mother Martha is worried about you. You are not in trouble. Please contact Metropolis PD to let us know you are safe, or click this link to share your location so we can come get you.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

If I saw that show up on my phone then I would immediately assume that there's a warrant out for my arrest. That message would be more likely to get me to huck my phone in a stream than click the link.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago

That's your prerogative. Nobody is making you get saved. It's not illegal to be missing.

At least you know that folks are looking for you and can make a decision based on that info.

But if you were actually injured and/or stuck somewhere, you might be inclined to click that link (or call your mother.)

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

I know this trick, it's a virus

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[–] [email protected] 73 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Real talk the lack of caller id for all businesses or government lines is insane.

If you are not making a private call, on a private line, the I'd should be populated

[–] [email protected] 39 points 1 week ago (2 children)

The bigger issue here is spam calls.

If that shit was stopped, people wouldn't ignore unknown callers.

While your solution is good it only solves part of the problem.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago

No, if a company was calling me and I didn't want to talk to them, I'd still be better informed with caller id.

A spam call would be ignored because I wouldn't recognize the business name

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

The issue is with cell phones and mobile networks. They don't all support passing CNAM (caller name delivery) between them. I worked in telecom for over 15 years, dealt with only businesses, I never met a company that didn't have CNAM set up.

[–] [email protected] 49 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I wouldn't expect rescuers to be calling me (assuming this is legit), so yeah, I probably wouldn't answer either

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Cmon, of course they would. They use every tool available and the phone is right there.

[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 week ago

"every tool available" okay text me then

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

Well then since they presumably got the missing person's number from someone that knows them and knows they were missing, maybe they should've called from that person's phone

[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 week ago

In this day and age, people should learn how to text. That guy almost had to have an awkward voice conversation. 😳

[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Weird story. If they needed rescuing and had cell coverage why would they need to wait for an incoming call?

[–] [email protected] 31 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Iirc He wasn't lost. Somebody told the authorities, that the guy was missing and that he wanted to go on a hike. So they called him to see if he really was lost. He didn't answer the call, so they presumed he was injured or lost his phone. With this information they declared him lost and started a search.

[–] [email protected] 34 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Then this is perfectly normal. Why would I answer a phone number I don't recognize when I'm out enjoying solitude? I imagine it was on DND and he never even saw the call.

What a weird article.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 week ago

I looked up a full article.

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2021/oct/26/hiker-lost-on-us-mountain-ignored-calls-from-rescuers-because-he-didnt-recognise-the-number

He did lose his trail, but wasn't at the point where he wanted to call for help. It looks like he wasn't aware that, if a lodge host at popular hiking spots asks about your plans for the day, it isn't just small talk.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

It was put out by "bigspam" to encourage you to answer their calls!!!

/s

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 week ago

....Dear Trevon, we've been trying to reach you about your car insurance..

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I will pay extra and tip the rescuers if they txt me.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago (3 children)

So a guy is lost and has phone service? Why didn’t he just call out for help? Never mind the whole issue of not answering unknown numbers. He had service and didn’t use his phone? This whole story is BS.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

I mean, did they leave a voicemail?

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