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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

I’m not from a native english speaking country, but my parents taught us siblings english first before we learned the local language. There were some minor issues (i.e. other kids won’t talk/play with us because we couldn’t converse well), but it paid off in the long run because we are generally more fluent than the average person from our country, and we have neutral accents when speaking english. It helped a lot working in the corporate world.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

Eventually I get to die and my suffering will end.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Born and raised in Scandinavia, life here is amazing in almost all aspects.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

My therapist said I'm persistent.. Guess that could be mine.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Tall. Forever slim no matter what I eat. Stable supportive family.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

A really good immune system. I get a cold maybe once every two years and they only last for about three days. I also don't get fevers (nobody knows why), which I know is kinda paradoxical but my immune system somehow is really good at dealing with infections despite this.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

Same. My partner calls me a fortress. She is frequently coming down with colds, like once a year at least. And covid twice. Meanwhile, I haven't got noticeably sick since the first lockdowns.

Hope that doesn't just mean I'm contagious af. I keep testing negative on the RATs anyway

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Wicked smaht. And generally good genes - no family illnesses or anything.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Interesting. How do you think thats your advantage?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

I'm HFA, so sometimes lack of empathy, sometimes better understanding of things in general, a little bit like "the good doctor", can be rather strange to neurotypical, but it often does the job

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

I have known some wonderful people who have helped me to grow into a person I don't entirely hate. Most of the time, I'm depressed, but I feel privileged to know people who remind me of things that are worth fighting for.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I don't feel any part of me that itches to make posts like this on the internet, and I appreciate that advantage.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

i live on one of the richest, most developed countries in the world with a good social system and universal healthcare and retirement.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

My hair turns copper-gold in the summertime when I'm out in the sun for a few days in a row.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Having travelled a lot, I feel I was born into what I consider a great country just as it was starting to pull itself out of poverty. Pure chance.

I got a good education and college was essentially free.

I have a lot of kids and work really hard at being a good dad so I am surrounded by love. I am very lucky that I am married twenty years (some better than others) to someone who still loves me and who I still love. Some days that love is all that keeps me going because fuck me I am exhausted haha.

I feel uncomfortable typing all that out but it's a good exercise in thankfulness so thank you.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

My dad died back in 2016 when I was 25 so I got an early inheritance to invest at a good time.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

A lot of people saying white + male, I'm not white but I'm light skinned in a country where colourism is a social plague, random people literally call me "whitey" and "blondy" despite me literally having a black mother, when I tell them I'm not white they reply "yes, you are", and I'm like "OK, mfer, apparently you know better than me to what ethnic group I belong". Can't say I haven't benefited from it, the police has almost never given me shit (they did once to be exact). I'm also a heterosexual cis man, and even tho I was born and raised in the poorest district of a big city my father always told me to cultivate my intellect, so I learned multiple languages (English being one of those), went to community college, taught myself software development, etc. I didn't have the biggest head start in life, but compared to my friends in the hood, and women and immigrants across the whole country I simply cannot complain.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

Absolute, fanatical concentration.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

Born in Europe, Not an immigrant, financially stable, free education, not part of any significant minority

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I dunno. I feel I get worse and worse at things the older I get.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

So, you did not die young?

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

I am helping many needy peoples.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (4 children)

i have a decent understanding of unix-like systems.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

English teacher who made me write a 500 word essay every day for a semester.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

White + was lucky to get a good job early on + parents had enough capital in their home to guarantor for my home loan at 28.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I have an IQ of 123 in spacial recognition.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

If you're logic enough the next step is 1234

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

Being born in our times.

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