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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago (4 children)

I see Shame is hanging with all his friends for his Birthday 😆

[–] [email protected] 11 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Very strange birthday group indeed. And all the usual clinger entourage absent as they actually may have meaningful things to do ! Best friend was glaringly absent ? Could there be a clash between her and the other “star characters” present. Doesn’t the birthday boy have any friends ?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Yeah, I’ll never feel sorry for Shane but how sad, yet not surprising, that Sarah served him her friends for his birthday. Avery is another Sarah posting crap for clicks but stands for nothing.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 5 days ago (2 children)

No sign of Briony and yet she made this post

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Mommy let him have a playdate! So sweet 🥳

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago (6 children)

Interesting post in Leaky’s sub

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

This is really strange! I don’t understand what happened here and there’s talk of gifts?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago

This is the kind of shit that makes my head spin and all the comments that follow it 😆

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (6 children)

I feel like she looks so distorted here? Why is she always taking up sidewalks to take pics and film videos bc the next story is her filming L in the middle of the sidewalk and you can tell people are walking by. People like her are so obnoxious.

Also you end up at the mall every weekend bc it’s what YOU want to do and you just blame your kids. You have all the fun going on trips and then just drag your kids to the mall instead of doing anything worthwhile.

ETA: sorry I forgot to blur out L

[–] [email protected] 15 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I am assuming y’all have children’s libraries, science centers, nature centers, museums, cultural centers, trampoline parks and what not’s in Canada. Or hell even a regular old fashioned park with a swing and a slide and other children. Does she live in a rural area or something? Why not a weekly trip to the library and the farmers market or something? ANYTHING more engaging than the same mall, home decor and toy store they visit every. single. week.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Unfortunately for L, she’ll only get to do these things if NK takes her to them. For some reason Sarah sees no benefit in giving her daughter a life of learning and playing with other kids and just being a kid in general. Big whoop she takes her to the toy store to Ooooh and ahhhh over toys, she can do that at home with the million things she already has! There is so much more out there for her but Sarah doesn’t care because Sarah only cares about herself and what’s out there for her, poor kid.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago (3 children)

I don’t understand why S. hasn’t put L. into nursery school. I’m a teacher and I really think L. would love being with other children her own age. It would also help with further development of language skills, etc. Just my opinion.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Because she doesn’t want L bringing home germs that she is going to pass onto Bird and interfere with all her traveling.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago

I wonder if she will home school L.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago

My thoughts are its too much exposure for the real S to put L in school. Drop her off and NK and S doesn't have to interact with people/other moms and she gets to continue to hide not only her real image but also personality.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago

I agree what you. L seems like such a joyous and fun little girl, I’m sure she would love being with kids her age instead of just sharing her joy with Sarah’s Instagram. She deserves so much better in life.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 days ago

Wow filtering herself to look like a size 2 here 🤯 I’m a size 4/6 and look bigger than this in pictures

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago

Her head is bigger than her torso interesting flex today

[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

She is the epitome of a teenage mall rat. Somehow seems arrested at a stage of life that we all got over.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Could’ve saved today’s trip to the mall and at least go tomorrow, when they have a Halloween event that her kid actually might enjoy, instead of being just dragged around the mall endlessly for no reason. Or, will it be a double mall trip this weekend? The thrilling life of a nontent creator…

[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 days ago (1 children)

She could’ve taken L downtown for the trick or treat event at all of the stores but that doesn’t benefit Sarah so what’s the point 🙄

[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 days ago

I think that’s NanaK’s job!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 days ago

Nope, the Eagles are playing tomorrow and that current obsession trumps any child’s interests.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)

The thigh gap is coming back I see. For a split sec we debated going to the mall today and then I remembered it’s absolutely shit. It’s so boring there.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago

Girl has never had a thigh gap. I don't know why she is so in denial and hell bent on pretending she has one. Give it up lol

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

The fact she was more concerned with getting to another event last night than getting home to her family? Like her priorities are fucked up. She’s been to Paris, Disney and NYC in the last couple weeks yet missing an event was upsetting 🙄

On one of the snarks (can’t recall which one) someone mentioned that maybe the big kids don’t live with her anymore and I’m starting to feel the same 🤔 she legit never mentions anything about B or J anymore, I know B made a brief appearance a couple days ago but J is nowhere to be seen. But good for them if they’ve created boundaries, I’d love that for them!!!

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 week ago (2 children)

"We" have had a phenomenal week? "We" who? Oh wait............her and her many faces, body types, and personalities. Got it

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

She loves to refer to herself as a “we” i don’t get it, she talks like such a teenager. Or like you said, she knows there’s so many different versions of her.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Priorities. Meanwhile their child was probably dumped off at grandmas.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 week ago (2 children)

She cares more about an electronic toy than her own kid, what a sad excuse for a mother

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago

At this point, she’s simply a birther. Not even remotely deserving of the title of mother.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

This is what true love is to her 💀

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 week ago

I had to read that caption twice…a 40 year old asking her husband to babysit her Tamogotchi. That’s just so stupid! Go spend some time with your real children!

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Pretty telling she is finally home and out for dinner and L is sitting so far away from her with her dad.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Heaven forbid she has to be responsible for watching her or helping her eat.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

This. She always acts like one of the children herself and lets everyone else worry about the youngest.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Yes this! She taps in to be with L when she can film for content.

I’m trying to think of some kind of work a parent might do that kids at school would give other kids a hard time for. Maybe politics? The fact that J&B are choosing not to be shared anymore, and they shouldn’t be, feels to me like they want to distance them selves like M did. But now that M is out of high school we’ve only seen M. As a mom I’d do anything for my children's well being. I’m dumbfounded that Sarah actually thinks she’s changing the world, saving woman from their bodies but her kids just have to fend for themselves. She is such a piece of shit.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago (1 children)

What was with the sharing of M’s bedroom? If I didn’t know her age I would have thought that belonged to an 8 year old. I can only assume they share it so they can be sent more free shit or are out of ideas for content for the day.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago

And to brag. She loves her a bragging moment.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

🤣 Ok Amy from Shine

And Becci with some performative bs

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Is Becci brain dead? Pandora has had gold jewelry for as long as I can remember. Plus Sarah has showcased their gold jewelry before so clearly Becci doesn’t watch her friends stuff closely.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

She’s full of shit!

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Second half of this week is off to a smashing start. All “we’ve “ done is try to flog four different items, including those failure to launch drinking cups.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago (3 children)

When will companies finally start to realize not to work with her? Reitmans has her collab basically on sale for 90% off. I was curious and crunched numbers for her Crappy Tire cups. In stock cups within all of the stores: 664 hot travel mugs, 697 cold tumblers. At retail cost, between the 2, that's $45,936.07 of product not moving. With those numbers, being generous, they seemed to have produced 1,000 of each hot/cold cups. So they have made $21,841.33 in retail sales off these shitty cups. Minus marketing costs, photoshoots, and what they paid her for it, they're at a loss, or if anything, just broke even on this terrible colab. And for what?

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I’m always so curious about these collab #’s . The cups are fugly and I’m surprised they aren’t already on clearance. I’m shocked Scrap & Toss can still be in business. The latest JF launch with Jillian looks like a complete failure. Also I’m completely mystified how this “nutrition” brand CIRA is still investing so heavily using Alicia ffs.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

I like your brain.

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