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Major or minor, doesn't matter. Just something you've been hoping for to happen for years and years, despite many promises and declarations made of that thing happening. Only for it to never happen at all.

Two things come of mind to me.

For America, we will never ever see an Independent take hold of the presidency. It hasn't happened for over 170+ years and that's a long damn time since the last time a person representing an independent party has ever held office. The only successes an independent party ever sees is smaller governments or some seats somewhere in the house or senate, that's about it.

But every election cycle, people are hamming up about how it's going to be the year for independents, until the primaries come and go and we're back to falling on two parties. I've stopped getting my hopes up and I stopped hoping the moment Bernie Sanders, who originally did run as an independent for the presidential election in 2016, had to turn to running as a democrat because even he realized that was the only way he was going to get votes at all.

One other thing and it's gaming related is that, there are still Nintendo fans out there hoping for a Mother 3 english release. It's a game that was released in 2006 and it never left Japan since. Despite all of the re-releases of Mother and Earthbound, Mother 3 has not gotten a localization. It's been released as a fan translation and I feel that's the best we're ever going to get.

It's been 18 years since it's original release and I think there's no point in hoping now for Nintendo to release it. They're too busy suing people.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago

That as human beings, we'll never come together for a common cause. A large proportion of us are just selfish, delusional beings.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 hours ago

Al of them, katie

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 hours ago

Being happy.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 hours ago

That my well being would one day become important to my siblings. They don’t hate me but are unwilling to care about me.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 hours ago

The final book of A Song of Ice and Fire.

Stopping Climate Change.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 hours ago

Elder Scrolls 6 being released in my lifetime

[–] [email protected] 4 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Immortality. The tech is going to be too far away. Maybe my grandchildren.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

I had the same hope when I was younger. Later on I imagined the last star dying and the utter dread the immortals would have to face.

Also: obligatory Mitchell & Webb sketch

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I think they meant the immortality where you can live as long as you want to, not the kind where you can't die. I don't think anyone wants that...

[–] [email protected] 1 points 38 minutes ago

Still, there might be psychological changes because of immortality. Survival instinct might grow even stronger the longer one lives, a bit like sunk-cost fallacy. Or if death becomes something exotic, of times long passed, it might no longer be regarded as a serious option, similar to how we've grown opposed to sacrificing virgins, or to using Myspace or Windows.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

That we're gonna do something real about the whole climate change thing. We're doing a bunch of window dressing, but there are too many entrenched interests fighting it.

My current hope is that my kids (and their kids) can make the best of whatever a +2C or +4C world looks like. And we manage to survive despite any ecosystem collapses.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

It's worse than that, and better at the same time.

I can't help noticing that Americans seem to see "climate change" and "the environment" as basically the same thing. That is: if you can just fix the first, you fix the second too.

But that's just not right. Climate change is only one of the problems we're facing. We could hit net zero tomorrow, or even net-minus-10% (i.e. draw down carbon), and it would do nothing at all to solve the myriad other semi-unrelated challenges. For example: deforestation, topsoil loss, freshwater depletion, overfishing, microplastic pollution, nitrogen and pesticide pollution, and of course the overarching issues of habitat loss and collapsing biodiversity.

Climate is almost a red herring. The real issue is our entire model of civilization, based on massive disruption of all kinds of natural processes.

The good news, ironically, is that the climate problem is at least somewhat fixable: just stop burning stuff (and then try to reverse the process). And despite the pessimism, we are actually making progress on this! Emissions are peaking earlier than predicted, the future temperature forecasts are better than they were a decade ago. Few people seem to know this good news. BTW: it's thanks mostly to China, without the Chinese green-tech revolution we would be in deep trouble.

The less good news is that solving climate will not solve the other problems. There are many of them and they are serious.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 hours ago

Oh just watch in 20-30yr for when coffee is no longer affordable to us commoners. Gonna get rough for a while. Actually why my goal ia to live at least another 35 years. Want to see that hell and the fallout.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

If you want to see an independent win the presidency, vote for the only candidate in this election who has a reasonable chance of defeating the orange fascist, then put all your energy into campaigning for an end to FPTP

That said, I've given up hope on this country every treating fascists and white supremacists how they should be treated

[–] [email protected] 4 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Getting the job that I want in the field I dream of.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

Enjoying a "career". It seems once my financial survival is tied to something in it becomes an obligation instead of a novelty.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 hours ago

Metroid Prime 4

[–] [email protected] 5 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

It feels pretty pointless to write a first book now - everyone will assume I had an LLM do it for me.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

I mean if you only enter wanted to write because it would get you writers clout then sure. You can still write to engage in the creative process and make something actually meaningful

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 hours ago

True enough.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

Prior to the 2016 election, I was hopeful that the freedom caucus and the rest of the far right was getting too crazy for the general public, and that its support would collapse leading to a bit of a normalization of politics.

Wishful thinking, in retrospect.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Who'd have thought the Tea Party would look relatively sane at this point?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 hours ago

Its the same people. Teabaggers became magats

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 17 hours ago

Society unfucking itself.

It seems like if things get bad enough, we'd adjust, but the air became poison and still is poison from covid, something that actively affects literally everybody right now in the present regardless of grouping, and we don't just fail to address it, we sprint as hard as possible back towards trying to make things the way they were, which isn't possible with poison air, so we get...this.

It's not that covid was, it's that covid still is our dry run for climate change, and we see what people are going to do: keep shooting you and themselves in the foot, and when you point out what's going on, stab you in the face and go right back to working overtime to continue ruining things, and trying very hard to imply that they're being reasonable.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 16 hours ago

I've lost hope that things will ever get better. This is it, this is all life has to offer. If you don't like it, well, suck it up.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 20 hours ago (6 children)

gestures broadly at all things

Humanity in general. People are jerks. Maybe Agent Smith was right all along.

Other than that... Half-Life 3 ever being made.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 16 hours ago

True human connections

[–] [email protected] 13 points 21 hours ago

The days of having a good user interface for electronics or programs is long gone and is never coming back. To many people don't even know how to look at a user interface and know if it's good or bad. They just buy bad ones and claim it's good out good enough.

That the US will never have net neutrality as a whole. A few states might implement it but no where near enough.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 17 hours ago

that my health will improve enough to live anything resembling a normal life. the doctors already gave up a long time ago

[–] [email protected] 6 points 18 hours ago

Until a man is twenty-five, he still thinks, every so often, that under the right circumstances he could be the baddest motherfucker in the world. If I moved to a martial-arts monastery in China and studied real hard for ten years. if my family was wiped out by Colombian drug dealers and I swore myself to revenge. If I got a fatal disease, had one year to live, devoted it to wiping out street crime. If I just dropped out and devoted my life to being bad. Hiro used to feel that way, too, but then he ran into Raven. In a way, this is liberating. He no longer has to worry about trying to be the baddest motherfucker in the world. The position is taken. The crowning touch, the one thing that really puts true world-class badmotherfuckerdom totally out of reach, of course, is the hydrogen bomb. If it wasn't for the hydrogen bomb, a man could still aspire. Maybe find Raven's Achilles' heel. Sneak up, get a drop, slip a mickey, pull a fast one. But Raven's nuclear umbrella kind of puts the world title out of reach. Which is okay. Sometimes it's all right just to be a little bad. To know your limitations. Make do with what you've got.

-Neal Stephenson, Snow Crash

[–] [email protected] 8 points 19 hours ago

The more I aged, the more "hopes and dreams" I gave up on. I guess that's the normal human experience. You might want to be a pro in sports or a dancer or a famous doctor...but then you grow out of the age where reaching those is possible (dancing goes first...).

Other than that, I've given up on so many hopes, only to then later get back to them. Like the hope of connecting to people, or to make art, to teach,...those and more are things I gave up on and later readopted.

So give up hope, but it might just come back :)

[–] [email protected] 9 points 20 hours ago (6 children)

The year of Linux on desktop

[–] [email protected] 3 points 14 hours ago (3 children)

To it's credit, Linux at least broke the glass ceiling of that 1% and managed to get 2%.

It's something, took them almost like three some odd decades, but it's something.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 14 hours ago

It was never going to surpass Windows or MacOS, but it has been steadily growing in usage rate. I think now it's at 5% of the market, largely off the back of Valve's Steam Decks which may or may not count as desktop by your definition.

It's just too technical to catch on for mainstream users, and that's honestly fine. I think everyone would prefer Linux offer freedom instead of simplicity.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 14 hours ago

That giving of yourself and being discerning, you could make sure to find balanced relationships.

People lie, to you and to themselves. Everyone wants to say they're going to be their best person when times are tough. Reality can be quite different when the pain kicks in or dynamics change.

But at this point after countless emergencies while being the one to stand up in the end to carry the sisyphean boulders, the truth is people are going to stand back in a panic when shit hits the fan and I'm going to be the one to figure things out.

Best compromise I have settled on is surrounding myself with people who will help when I ask. It's up to me to ask, plan, and keep all our heads above water, which is exausting, but they won't blow me off.

It's the best I have been able to find of the available optional combination of traits in people i find attractive. 🙃

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