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[–] [email protected] 146 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (36 children)

Who notices that someone is better at mounting tvs? How does one notice this? What is this made up scenario?

[–] [email protected] 98 points 2 months ago (18 children)

Besides watching someone to try to learn, craftsmen can just goon over other's works.

At a job once updating some central lighting control there were some awesome rooms some (probably long retired) electrician had planned and installed. man that shit was so clean. Another time me n another guy were 'mirin this single ¾ conduit bend for 5 minutes.

[–] [email protected] 70 points 2 months ago (2 children)

This isn't exactly 100% relevant to your story, but it is related and an anecdote I enjoy sharing.

I recently moved to a small town and hired an electrician to make some changes to my house. After showing him around the house, we went to look at the fuse box to determine what changes could be made.

As we were looking, he said "I know those fuses are original." When I asked how, he pointed at the labels and said "because that's my father's handwriting."

Kinda cool to have a legacy like that. The electrician did do good work, so far as I can tell, so it was likely earned as well.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 2 months ago (1 children)

"because they're fuses instead of breakers"

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago

Ah yes, that's my fault; my house isn't new, but it's not old enough to use fuses, original or otherwise.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 months ago

Another similar example would be guys who look at a picture of a server rack and go "Hnnnng, look at that cable management ohmygod how!?"

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[–] [email protected] 47 points 2 months ago (5 children)

Professional handymen, electronics installers, contractors, people who do this kind of thing for a living.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I'm one of those. Anyone else think it looks a tiny bit higher on the right hand side? Lol

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[–] [email protected] 39 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Better work with the cabling, perhaps. In this picture you can see that there's a new work box in the drywall so he's running hidden cables. There could be drywall patching or he's really good at making the holes so there doesn't need to be patching.

He could do more types of mounts than this guy is used to.

He could be faster.

Is that you're completely unimaginative so you can't come up with ways someone might be better or do you have so little respect for trades that you think there can't be skill involved?

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Pros notice tiny details that most people don't even think of.

Maybe they did the job 5 minutes faster or the mount job just looks cleaner than yours.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (1 children)

One example: Check the screws on your electric outlet/light switch faceplates. If the screws are aligned, your electrician gave a shit about their work

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago

Faceplate screws in places I've worked: | | | | |

Faceplate screws in my own house: | / \ X = √

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I see it all the time.

Like someone shares a photo their desk and their setup is so slick. Or someone shows off their kitchen. Those are things I like a lot and want to improve. So rather than scroll past, or leave a hater response, I ask questions to pick up what they're dropping. You can try that.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago

Just because you don't do something doesn't mean nobody does. Maybe don't assume something is made up just because you're unfamiliar with it.

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[–] [email protected] 109 points 2 months ago (10 children)

My step-brother and I weren't family until a decade ago. He goes into incel mode and projects his insecurity by hating on everybody.

But today, he shared this with me about something he wants to get better at as he was getting tired of being angry all the time.

So hopefully this message gets across to more people.

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[–] [email protected] 79 points 2 months ago (1 children)

True kings fix each other's crowns.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago

I like this a lot. Thank you king.

[–] [email protected] 43 points 2 months ago (4 children)

It's a sign of the times that this is upvoted so much. When I was growing up, this was called normal behavior and was boring and nobody talked about it.

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[–] [email protected] 42 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I had a plumber once, older guy, who was really eager to teach somebody the trade. He "made" me do half the work and I didn't even mind because I learned how to do a lot of shit I didn't know how to do before.

Be coachable in life and you will be surprised the info you can get from qualified people for free.

Also if you are handy you always have a fallback job if your 9 to 5 shitcans you unexpectedly.

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[–] [email protected] 41 points 2 months ago (8 children)

Nice message, but the thought of the existence of a competitive scene of contractors specializing in mounting TVs is hilarious. Also, that mounting plate is crooked af.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 months ago

He didn't say he was any good, just better

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 months ago (9 children)

All these people in the comments complaining that the bar isn't level when the picture is just taken from a slight side angle? 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️ literal perspective problem 😂

Also people being like "lol no such thing as a TV-bar-hanger-contractor"..... Audio/video contractors of course do this??? Like, who said its the only thing their job entails?? 😂

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (4 children)

That bar is not straight i hate it.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Or if it's anything like some of the places I've lived, it's straight but the walls aren't...

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 months ago

Poss optical illusion from camera angle, also poss irrelevant once the display is in front of it.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Yeah. He wants to improve!

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago

Imagine how much more common this positive vibe would be if people wouldn’t need to spend at least 1/3 of their life trying to meet ends in competitive environment

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Everyone better than me is inspiration

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I think asking is the part that's hard to work on. Most people love to help eachother out, but the "self sufficiency" mindset holds is back from asking eachother.

Two Kings in that post!

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Weird that someone could see someone being better than them at something so their first thought is to "hate on them" rather than respecting them

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago

r/tvtoohigh

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Can't tell if that mount is way off-level or not. Based on the floor moulding, it looks like it's lower on the left than right. OCD = triggered

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

He's calculated the precise amount the house will settle so that the TV is level in the end. THAT's how good he is.

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