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[–] [email protected] 27 points 4 months ago (7 children)

slang mostly, I mod a strictly 18+ space and recently someone used the word "skeet", and would you believe it, they were a minor

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 4 months ago (7 children)

Extensive use of emojis and abbreviations is a good indicator.

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 4 months ago (11 children)
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[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I'm approaching 30 and will gladly use all of those both ironically and unironically.

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 4 months ago (3 children)

All I'm learning from this thread is that no one can tell any consistent signs.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 4 months ago

Schrödinger’s Thread - there’s an equal chance you’re either a child or a bear until proven otherwise.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 4 months ago (6 children)

Excessive swearing, as if they just learned how to say “fuck”.

Not that any damn amount of fucking swearing means they are are a young fucker, but you can fucking tell when you read that shit and they manage nine goddamn swear words in one fucking sentence you know they’re a young bitch who aren’t allowed to swear any other damn time.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Mother damn, that's a shitting good point my bastard

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 4 months ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 23 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (4 children)

lethal amounts of cringeidk man frfr ong. thats not skibidi rizzler fanum tax of you to assume im a younger and have L rizz, im no cap a sigma fr. anyway im finna dip and be like an alpha. 💀

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 4 months ago

Crypto bros who follow ultra distorted stoicism (the only good philosophy is the ones made when slavery was normalised) that believe everyone else is unaware of what very basic knowledge they world they just learned that day.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Quick to call other people kids as an insult.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 4 months ago (6 children)

Writing in short form where a lengthier reply would work better and when confronted with such a reply some form of "not reading all that" or other thought terminating clichés.

I've found that as arbitrary as it is - the ability to read a lot of information works pretty well as a mark of mental maturity. Also links to Twitter or Tiktok as discussion points. No one over the age of 19 browses TikTok lol.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 4 months ago (4 children)

When they start calling people "jr" or implying anyone who disagrees with them is too young to understand.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

Not sure if it's the case anymore, but strong opinions were matched with EQUALLY STRONG STYLISTIC CHOICE!!!!!!!, often coupled with poor grammar/spelling, and a tendency to lean more towards rehashing the same opinion rather than making a rational argument for it.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

I dunno, I get this as much from old people too. I think it's less an indicator of age and more an indication of people who aren't great at thinking.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 4 months ago (4 children)

Probably just internet slang and the skull emoji. That and poor grammar are (possible) indicators.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 4 months ago (2 children)

They’re the ones who are not obsessing over children’s toys or saying “adulting is difficult!”.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 4 months ago (3 children)

This one has been easy for me lately: They spell 'lose' as 'loose'.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I know far too many people in their 40s who do this.

The way I try to reinforce the difference with people is this mnemonic device:

You don't want a loose noose - or you might lose the extra 'o'.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 4 months ago

Unfaltering loyalty to the Chinese Communist Party

[–] [email protected] 18 points 4 months ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 17 points 4 months ago (1 children)

"Arguing" by listing a long list of fallacies that they don't really even understand.

Fallacy fallacy!

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