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[–] [email protected] 67 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Yeah jokes on him 40 year old polyamorous women pull like crazy

[–] [email protected] 56 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (2 children)

We are friends with a 53 year old widow, she is physically unremarkable, chubby, has kids in college. She has sex with multiple guys a week and details her adventures to my wife over text. These guys range from 25 to 44 yrs old. Women will always get laid more than men. If they want it, they can have it.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 10 months ago

Yeah I’m a 29 year old woman and there’s a woman in her 50s that I’ve been making out with. It’s kinda weird that her kids are my age, but she’s hot af so… and yeah she’s chubby, but it works for her.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago (2 children)

No idea apart from op and you. Is this true?

[–] [email protected] 25 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Yes, 30s upward seems to peak "Xilf" age for the decade below them. Women in polyamorous-spaces are very pursued and, compared to mono-spaces, the men in it are much more likely to be knowledgeable on relationship-health. There is also more emotional intelligence, and tools and systems for working through it (they virtually all work in monogamous relationships too, but because there are more moving parts people seem to care more for preventative measures than just being reactionary).

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I think it’s more natural selection than choices. You can do multiple bad relationships at once, but you’re unlikely to enjoy it enough to keep trying.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago

I would say that's true, but I have direct experience with this being in the community and know otherwise.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 10 months ago

As a man briefly on the poly scene... Yes, 100%. The only reason my wife didn't score more is due to crippling social anxiety. We both stopped after the first extramarital thing and decided we're too autistic to ever try that again lol.