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A couple quotes...
Both are difficult in terms of original source, but the best quotes usually are ;)
Point is, there's three classes of problems. Most are type one - not my fucking problem.
Type two is what you're talking about here, your problem, but you didn't cause it. I've found that like 90% of these require serenity, because you can't fix stupid... You kinda just gotta consider that until the light bulb comes on I guess? I've never had any issue with this one personally, it just always seemed self evident.
I've always struggled with type three, the things that are my problem and I caused them. That's the shit I dwell on, because you can't take it back, and sometimes, you can't fix those either. You gotta swallow the pill on the fact that you did a stupid...
You weren't the guy doing the stupid, ya know?