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Reading comments in different communities, I noticed that users hardly leave smilies. Why is that?

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[–] [email protected] 50 points 10 months ago (3 children)

Personally I feel like if I need to use one, then I've done a poor job of writing.

I guess the other component is that I write a lot at work (I'm an engineering manager) and emoticons aren't really appropriate for that kind of communication, so I'm not in the habit of using them.

[–] [email protected] 36 points 10 months ago (1 children)

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago

Such an emoji can be sent to a customer when all deadlines have passed.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 10 months ago (1 children)

What kind of engineering manager isn’t using a dramatic shrug emoji or emoticon dozens of times every day?!

Don’t tell me your team has their shit together.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 10 months ago

I prefer to walk to their desks and make the expressions and gestures in person.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 10 months ago (1 children)

😂 what!? I've worked with 11 engineering managers and they've all used emojis. You're either not in software or you work for a bank/insurance.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago (3 children)

Not sure what to tell you, I'm the senior manager for software engineering in a company that makes rocket engines, solid rocket motors, and space electrical power systems. I've been working there for 38 years and emojis are pretty rare.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I also work with space electrical power systems. That was an odd thing to see in the wild lol

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Huh interesting. Are you comfortable saying more? The company I work for did the EPS for the ISS, we did the MMRTGs for the Mars rovers, and some others. We're not at the same place, are we?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I work on other projects, not the rovers or ISS. I’m in Houston.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago

If you're at JSC, maybe you're our customer.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Exactly, not in software as in, not working for a software company.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I did start by saying I was an engineering manager, so I thought that part was a given

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Sorry! I've only heard that title used in the context of software engineering gigs.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Hmmm, maybe we have a semantic issue. That's literally my title: Senior Manager, Software Engineering. But it's a heavily engineering company, not a heavily software company.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

Yeah, makes perfect sense!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

You’re just older. Has nothing to do with being an engineering manager.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Emoticons started getting popular in the 90s, so I'm in the age group where that was happening. You'll see other people in this thread saying they felt like it was a boomer thing. I don't think my age is the reason.