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Firstly, you need to eat and sleep, you can't solve anything if you don't have the energy for it. Make it simple like some soup or chicken. Your girlfriend might need some space or time to think, be patient with her. At the very least, keep goog terms with her and agree to take care of the kid, even if you don't live together.
Iโve done all of this as best I can, but Iโm struggling with the eating and sleeping. Iโm doing my best though.
That sounds so tough man. You're in my thoughts, I don't know what else to say. I hope you get all the strength and happiness you need.