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I have just realised how many things I haven't done or potentially won't do because they scare me.
With uni, sometimes I'm scared to try because I'm worried I'll fail, and at least if I fail without trying, I'd have some control over it. I'm scared of losing my relationship so I haven't advocated for my wants as much as I should be doing, and considered ending it. I will only do cardio at the gym if it's busy because I don't want to be around other people when I'm probably fucking up movements. I've always wanted to teach but I'm bloody scared to.
Today I'm saying fuck it. I'm going to try, even if that means I fail.
I believe there is nothing more liberating than saying "fuck it" before doing something. Like you touched on, it's accepting what happens next, rather than not bothering because of the potential of failure. You've got this, man.