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[โ€“] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago (2 children)

My least favorite is

Just be yourself!

Even in grade school I knew this was hogwash. I didn't act the same in class as during recess, or in church as when at the dinner table. Exactly which me was I supposed to be? When someone asks, "What am I supposed to do?" They are really asking, "How should I behave?" And if you've never been on a date before, or this is your first job interview, then it's not obvious.

A: "So, how did the interview go?"

B: "Not so well, he threw my resume away, in front of me, and ordered me to leave."

A: "What? Why?"

B: "Well, I did just as your said, I was being myself. I walked in, gave him the ol' finger guns, then started with my best fart joke."

A: "Why the hell would you do that at an interview?"

B: "Because that routine always slays in the dorms and I was trying to be myself."

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

ask yourself: is it possible to be anybody else? no? then this saying is non-nonsensical!

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I don't know, as a ttrpg'er, I'm being someone else every two weeks for three hours are a time. ;)

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Anybody on the autism spectrum just laughs sadly, shakes head quietly, when told 'just be your self'