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I live in the USA, and our future seems more bleak than it ever has. Is not about politics, although politicians do have an impact on it. It's really about our quality of life, and cost of living, which has not changed for the better, it seems, in a really long time. The cost of living keeps going up higher and higher, and much of our country still believes that even with increased cost of living, there is never any reason whatsoever to pay people more. So for instance, a job that paid 10 bucks an hour in the year 2002, that same job might still pay $10 an hour now. But I think we all know that the cost of living has dramatically gone up from 2002 to now.

Even White collar jobs though seem to be threatened to now, which is not something I've ever seen before. Positions like analyst, engineer, business intelligence, revenue management, whatever you want to think of. Any corporate office job, people are suffering. The cost of living is absurd, buying a house is simply out of reach unless you have dual income and it better be nearly six figure dual income....

I just don't see how Americans at large are going to survive the next 30 years?

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[–] [email protected] 44 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Honestly, the ones who survive well are the ones who build communities that take care of each other: Sharing meals, sharing gardens, sharing skills and labor, sharing rides, sharing emotions and stories, etc.

Capitalism was always pushing the US towards a gigantic class divide, and Boomers and Gen X carried that torch at the expense of their descendants' future. Communities of support are something that will have helped regardless of who is carrying what ideology and regardless of who is in charge, and they thrive in adversity.

So if you're looking for advice, build your local communities. Strengthen your bonds with your neighbors. Participate in local governance.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 days ago

Gen x is in the same boat as millenials, they just had a tiny bit more of a chance still.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I would if the damned bank would let me buy a house!!! Trying to get a 90K bank loan, have 36k in cash, and still denied because I don't have a credit score.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

let me buy a house

The advice wasn't for house owners only. All the others are human, too.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

I was in the same boat. Banks are lazy and often won't underwrite custom loans that fall outside their automatic software, but there are still some who will.

If you don't have a score (which I'm convinced some mortgage people think means a bad score, because they're fucking idiots who can't listen), you can ask to speak to someone in charge or go elsewhere, but there are lenders who will work with you. Got ours through USDA, which took longer and was custom underwriting, but still got the terms about two weeks later.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

and Gen X carried that torch

Has anyone seen my torch, 'cause I sure can't find it (though I was in the last couple years of Gen X)