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What have been the Great Fairy Fountains in your life? (lemmy.world)

submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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By that I mean basically unexpected oases in your life where and by whom you feel nurtured and restored and just safe in the moment?

For me, it was a woman at work who became like a mother to me and I'll think a bit more about physical spaces but that is a very important aspect also

Try not to say your home space cuz that should be a given. Think outside the crib

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I don't know, I don't think I have one of these in a consistent manner. Home space isn't necessarily that effective for everyone, so it's not a given.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Not one in the whole journey?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

No, all I can say is when I was a child my mother and occasionally grandmother had that effect. It started to get less effective during my teens and it's certainly no longer a thing anymore. As for other sources that truly nurture AND make me feel safe, no, I can't think of a single one. I've had plenty of people taking nurturing and protective roles in my life but I wouldn't say their effect was of full restoration and complete safety. Same goes for places. Something is always amiss or not enough for full recharge and safety.