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Why is Lemmy not a place for thoughts and observations, rather than just links, questions, and memes? And could it be? (self.asklemmy)

submitted 3 months ago by connect to c/[email protected]

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Does it have something to do with the rise of smartphones and no one typing on real keyboards? (Maybe why blogs died.)

Is it a consequence of voting, which blogs didn’t have?

What happens to your thoughts? Do you turn them all in the form of a question? Do you tear them down into a Mastodon one-liner and hope a popular person notices it?

If Lemmy had more of ourselves in this way, maybe it would be a healthier place.

Being idle until the media put out an article on something for us to talk about gives them too much power over us.

There’s an actual_discussion community, which isn’t exactly lively. There’s a casualconversation community, and even that’s all in the form of a question.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

I sometimes post thoughts/questions and usually get some interesting discussion, so it is worth it. I think I also prefer seeing other posts like this. I think that the reason for seeing more posts which are links is because a) it's easier and b) most online content is somewhere on the clickbait spectrum and the result of that is manifested here on Lemmy much the same as it would be anywhere else.

Edit: Also, I'm upvoting your post because I think you are essentially calling for firsthand thoughtful discussion, which is a good thing for everyone.

[–] connect 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Thank you. Whatever I’ve done online has always been more or less unwelcome. I saw that my post has a 0, which must really be some negative value. I knew at least some people would be defensive, group membership, tribalism, the angry insecure thrill of attacking outsiders, but I wasn’t sure whether it would lean that way overall.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Don't take it to heart and remember that there are other posts/comments that received way more downvotes, my own included! I'm sorry to hear you've had a rough time online. I've appreciated this post though and you've had some upvotes, so I'm sure others have too.

[–] connect 1 points 3 months ago

Thanks. I’ve proceeded to have some positive conversations, which I must have been really thirsting for.