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"Watch" implies visual media, but in my experience women read tons of smut while men tend to enjoy photos and videos. You need to include smut to make it interesting, I think, because that might at least leave some doubt as to the outcome.
In my limited experience, a lot of women also refuse to categorize their smut as porn. It's just a "romance novel". Or "fan fiction". So that makes including reading difficult.
Nah, erotica is a separate category from books with sex.
I love, love , love the Kushiel's Dart trilogy, and it's got sex, violence, violent sex and sexual violence, but I read it for the story, the sex in the books serves the story.
Erotica I would look at BDSMErotica on Reddit, or on Literotica, those stories I would use more like guys use visual porn,