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My parents have always been left-wing hippies and entertained the odd conspiracy theory, but during the pandemic they got lost down YouTube rabbit holes and bought into Q-Anon and anti-vax ideas. They still don't believe Covid is real (even though they blatantly had it...).

We've just kind of agreed not to talk about it anymore, but they've steadily become more and more batshit and I think they believe I have been brainwashed.

Anyone else's familial relationships changed forever?

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 year ago (5 children)

It was never about covid. These people are born to be contrarians about whatever other people are doing. I don't know exactly what makes them want to live that way, but that's just their preferred way of existing. Be it covid, Russia, LGBT, and whatever other """opinions""" they've been spoon fed on their Facebook feed. They always change. Every other week/month/year it's something else they get butthurt about. Funnily enough, it's almost always the same type of person: no education, frustrated with life, dead-end job, in debt, and so on. I personally believe that angertainment is a coping mechanism for them. I've told family members before to stick to normal topics like a normal social human being when talking to me, because I do not care about their frustrations with whatever X is doing.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

Yeah this is true, my parents are definitely contrarians.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

I think you're mistaken about the type of person who can fall prey to this type of exploitation. It's much more broad than the specific group that you described.

I don't have any widespread data to site but I can tell you just from my own life that some of the anti-vaxxers I've come across come from all varieties of backgrounds with all types of financial situations and careers. That's also true from what many of my friends have told me with regards to people they've met.

And I sympathize with the people who get played like violins. The 24-hour news cycle is pernicious, there's a lot of bad things that happen in life, and it's easy enough to let yourself get angry and confuse that anger with careful thought and progress. And once you fall into the trap, is your pride going to let you climb out of the pit that you willingly threw yourself into?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Science makes you feel dumb. It tells you that the basic way you see the universe is wrong. Believing in conspiracy theories makes you feel smart. Some people have abnormally low tolerances for feeling stupid.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

The correct word is reactionaries. That’s what they are.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

"These people ..."