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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

mainly because i'm a pistons fan lmao. 30 wins above last season is nothing to scoff at either. i honestly think it's a toss up though.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

i looked through your post history a little, i know it might be hard considering whatever feelings you may have had for her but i think it's better if you just leave the group chat, block her, and move on. i'd take a break from dating for a while as well, and focus on your friendships and those who really care about you in your life. you deserve to have better friendships and relationships rather than seeking validation from your terrible sounding exes and stangers on lemmy. it's probably not a good idea to post about all of this online anyway. you're still in high school. do your homework, give your mom a hug, go outside for a bit, it's nice out today. it'll be alright.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago

this is genuinely such a helpful comment and many of these things have helped my dysphoria in the past. not OP but thank you for this

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 days ago (3 children)

x86 was a mistake

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think you fear hypothetical hate crimes and hypothetical regret more than your current very real misery. Refusing to let yourself live a life as yourself because of what might happen isn't healthy.

Judging by your replies in this thread, you aren't in an extremely dangerous area. I'm not sure where you live so I can't say for certain, but there are queer people everywhere and before giving up hope entirely I'd look into what the queer community looks like in your area, irl or online. I live in a small town in the US with a lot of conservatives but I know at least a few queer people, and I've been medically transitioning for over a year now. It's easier said than done of course but I think you should at least try; repressing yourself is only going to make you feel worse.

Regardless of what labels you find fit you best too, you should try to become the person you enjoy being the most. Whether that involves looking into HRT or presenting more feminine (which it seems you've started doing), or whatever you'd like, I think you should be yourself, regardless of what others might think. It's not a commitment either, you can decide something's not for you at any time.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

i agree twitter user @ FrottingIDK

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago

perkeo is a beautiful name for a baby girl

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 weeks ago

wow... and i thought the grizzlies were crazy for firing their coach this late

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago

lain? is that you?

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