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ex (20f)’s friends completely ignore me (18f) (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

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me and ex have dated for around 11 months. I broke up with her because she would only spend time on video games and her friends.

she was hardly ever online and when she was, never spoke to me.

she lost interest in me and was seeing other ppl without my knowledge or consent. it turned out, she didn’t even have feelings for me.

she also used to be incredibly abusive, homophobic, transphobic, even racist (which is why I broke up the first time) but is now suddenly a huge lesbian rights supporter (I’m proud of her growth though).

even when I speak in the GC, they all just talk to each other, ignore my messages, and talk about their video games, tv show, etc.

like, if anyone (especially my ex) says something, her friends will be like “OMG SO TRUE THATS HILARIOUS” but talk over me.

my ex will somewhat talk to me, but her friends will act like I don’t exist

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago

That makes sense, you broke up and they're her friends ... they probably feel partial to her and not you, right?

I think most people sorta move on from friends of the person they broke up with for this reason.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

i looked through your post history a little, i know it might be hard considering whatever feelings you may have had for her but i think it's better if you just leave the group chat, block her, and move on. i'd take a break from dating for a while as well, and focus on your friendships and those who really care about you in your life. you deserve to have better friendships and relationships rather than seeking validation from your terrible sounding exes and stangers on lemmy. it's probably not a good idea to post about all of this online anyway. you're still in high school. do your homework, give your mom a hug, go outside for a bit, it's nice out today. it'll be alright.