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[–] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago

I have a chonky transparent teal one with gold flecks in it and liquid glitter core. I love it to bits

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

They usually include stuff like “how many kids would have been born if no one child policy” and other bs nonsense in numbers like these

[–] [email protected] 14 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Anglosphere masculinity is so messed up.

Why not just try opening up? Be a bit vulnerable yourself with your guy friends, that’ll help them feel safe to reciprocate.

Wish you the best OP.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Those daily workouts were the best part of school in China tbh. 8 sets of aerobic exercises and 8 sets of facial/eye massage every morning

[–] [email protected] 32 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I’m just watching everyone sleepwalk into it like there’s no other choice and it’s BAFFLING. There’s literally NO justification and yet everyone is talking about it. Imperial warmongerers should get the fucking wall. I already haven’t seen my family since covid and the idea of being stuck on the other side of a war to them is nightmarish

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago

Damn usually I don’t feel that affected by news items but I am just weeping at this

[–] [email protected] 21 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I found out and immediately came to celebrate with y’all

[–] [email protected] 18 points 11 months ago

I can’t believe I used to give that rag money

 

Background: I’m Chinese by origin but grew up in the west. He’s English. He’s kind of a LIB but in a lefty way and has been with me to China multiple times, we’ve been together for years. He has had misconceptions before but is always learning. He does go on Reddit still, mostly to talk about land value tax which is his big political obsession right now.

Anyway last night we were at dinner and talking about an idea for a project that’s like quora but with only expert/academic researchers as responders. Part of it would need a reputation rating for the researchers. We were then talking about the use cases/audience for the project and I said “this might be better suited to Asia” (because of how highly education is valued and the pressure on kids to study/achieve grades). And he immediately responded “because they’re used to social credit scores?” Like. Without missing a beat. Maybe I’m overthinking it but it really pissed me off that his first association when I mentioned Asia was… this.

We talked about it and he explained that the concept was already in his mind when he was thinking about the reputation system so it wasn’t just a reaction to Asia specifically. But he insisted that he knew social credit scores were a real thing. I think he did listen when I said these types of jokes were what made Reddit such a hostile environment to be in, though.

I’m not sure what I’m asking but I just wanted to get it off my chest. Does anyone maybe have resources on internet Sinophobia / explanation of where the social credit stuff came from I can share with him?

Thanks crew. Sorry that was so long x

[–] [email protected] 36 points 11 months ago

The wheels of the consensus manufacturing machine keep turning

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

As above so below

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Some people do it for personal branding or to differentiate accounts. Generally I don’t blame people for wanting to feel a sense of belonging, but I also agree that on a personal level I wouldn’t label myself as one thing or another.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 11 months ago

The real woke army was the friends we made along the way

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