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[–] [email protected] 25 points 2 weeks ago

She's trans, please don't use the term futa, it's extremely objectifying and also transphobic.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago

Thank you I didn't know who made it, I just found it. Added to the post body.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago

Agreed, as if to imply that it's somehow bad to look more masculine than most women, or even be straight up visibly AMAB. There's nothing wrong with that whatsoever.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

It's part of a test I'm running for a plugin I'm making to give a toast and notification when you're banned or have content removed. I contacted an admin so we'll see if they can do it for me. Hopefully they can because I don't have any other way to test it out.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

I'm not entirely sure, I've heard that defederation breaks subscriptions and stops new content from flowing in, but I've also heard that it only stops content from flowing in from the server they're blocking. It's hard to say. I would definitely recommend creating an account there though if you're intio those communities or queer content in general. I'm still thinking of doing it myself soon, just haven't gotten around to it yet.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah I am someone who looks like the person on the left, I do hope to feminize a little bit more on E but overall as a tomboy I do like looking a bit more masculine. I also don't really see why looking like that would make someone untrustworthy or scary.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

Personally I'll probably just let people pick fights with me, not pick fights with them. It would be the dumbest thing they could do since I'm tough and would kick their asses. And they would deserve it for picking a fight with someone who's ripped.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago

I wish we had more trains here. Been watching Not Just Bikes and it seems so nice to not need to drive places. Owning a car is so expensive.

 

They're still a bit sore afterwards but overall I'm thrilled. I've always wanted to get my ears pierced but was told since I was a boy I could only get one pierced, so I never did it back then, but since I'm not actually a boy (I'm a trans girl) I figured why let that stop me.

Anyone got any recommendations for earrings I should get that suit a tomboy aesthetic? rn I have only the basic studs but I'm looking to get some more for after the healing process is complete. Any suggestions?

 
 
 

So today I'm getting chest dysphoia really bad, and I feel sad and upset. I'm hoping I can get on HRT soon but I know it'll be a long time, especially since I just came out. So I wanted to ask, how does everyone here who hasn't started HRT yet cope with chest dysphoria? Is there something I can do to maybe feel better, even just temporarily?

 
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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

I want your opinion of how she looks. Do you think she looks pretty, do you think she looks cool? Both?

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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

I want your opinion of how she looks. Do you think she looks pretty, do you think she looks cool? Both?

 

Yes I included beard and mustache stubble on purpose. I like my little fuzzy bits of beard and mustache and I plan to keep them even as I transition and become more feminine, though I'll likely always present and act more masc since that's what I like.

My only real source of dysphoria at the moment is towards my flat chest and the fact I lack any breasts, it makes me sad and I hope I can get on Estrogen soon so I can begin to change that.

 

cross-posted from: https://lemm.ee/post/49671489

Recently today I realized that I am in fact a trans girl. I made a post about it in [email protected] and after that I was reflecting a lot on my past, the mistakes I've made, and I realize I've made a lot of them. I've said horrible things about and to LGBTQ people, and just awful shit in general when I was younger. I was a young and stupid kid and I would say horrible things online, things I heard from other people or read online. Things I now regret and feel horrible about. I know I can never excuse any of them just because I was younger but I do deeply regret those mistakes, and I am deeply sorry I said any of those things. I know that isn't an excuse but I hope people can find it in them to forgive me for my awful mistakes and accept me as a new person.

 

Recently today I realized that I am in fact a trans girl. I made a post about it in [email protected] and after that I was reflecting a lot on my past, the mistakes I've made, and I realize I've made a lot of them. I've said horrible things about and to LGBTQ people, and just awful shit in general when I was younger. I was a young and stupid kid and I would say horrible things online, things I heard from other people or read online. Things I now regret and feel horrible about. I know I can never excuse any of them just because I was younger but I do deeply regret those mistakes, and I am deeply sorry I said any of those things. I know that isn't an excuse but I hope people can find it in them to forgive me for my awful mistakes and accept me as a new person.

 

I used to think I'm a guy, I like many masculine things like motor sports, fixing cars, playing shooters. Things that typically boys like and I have no desire to wear girly clothes or anything like that. But I've always when I was younger liked hanging out with girls more than I liked hanging out with other dudes. Maybe that's not weird but I liked their company more, like how other boys would hang out with the guys, I liked doing that but with girls.

Recently I met someone new, she's a lot like me in her interests and even her style, and I learned she's transfem and that has made me question whether I might be trans myself. I asked her to call me by she/her pronouns for a bit to see how it feels, and I got a rush of happiness when she referred to me with she/her pronouns. So now I'm not sure if I am a guy or not anymore. I don't have any discomfort towards my penis and I do think I'd miss it if it were gone, but lately I have been getting discomfort related to my chest, it feels flat and empty, and wrong. Like it should be bigger than it is. It doesn't seem normal for a guy to feel like that.

I really need help, is it normal for a guy to feel like this or does this mean I might be trans?

 

Seriously why? Discuss.online has horrible moderation and open-signups, and Lemm.ee isn't very much better. If lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works were completely nuked to avoid the moderation headache or risks from two large open servers, why aren't lemm.ee and discuss.online banned as well?

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