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[–] [email protected] 3 points 16 hours ago

I wish I was on HRT rn :(

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Transfem tomboy power 😎🏳️‍⚧️💪

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

It's kind of a joke post but also kind of not, since I aspire to be a very butch, very Masc tomboy transfem. I'm not concerned if I pass enough for people's tastes, I just want to be happy and be myself, my true self.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Is a Girl <3 | .... :(

What are you on about? You ARE a girl <3 🏳️‍⚧️

 
 
[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Good suggestion, I'll probably get proper breast pads or inserts though. I've got the money for it.

been refining that for about a year now to reasonable success till i start hrt

What? You've been waiting more than a year for HRT 😔😭?!? I don't want to wait a whole year to do it, especially since it might get harder to do it in the future.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

Uh yeah, British transphobes 😅

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

That's good to know. I guess I can still eat like that but just work out more so I stay in shape and don't lose too much muscle. Also glad to hear that muscle loss isn't immediate or complete, still not thrilled about losing any. I know that for some trans girls it's something they hate and want gone but personally I want to be a very big and muscular girl since I'm going for the butch tomboy look, and also it's nice to be strong.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

That makes sense. I might be one of those, I always had a hard time dating women before, but I wasn't aware I was a lesbian back then (since I was still an Egg).

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

I guess it's good that I don't have biochemical dysphoria, at least not that I know of, my dysphoria comes mainly from my lack of breasts.

I think a padded bra or inserts would probably help me. I don't think eating more food to get fat will help me much when I'm on Estrogen cuz I work out a lot now, and I'll be doing it more then so I don't lose muscle mass as much, that's one thing I don't really want to happen when I'm on E.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Why do some people push back against this sentiment? You do realize that transphobes are awful people that don't need or deserve defending right? Next I'm going to hear people opposed to punching Nazis?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

That's good to know, I'll make sure to keep that in mind when I start HRT

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago (2 children)

What's a disaster lesbian?

 

So today I'm getting chest dysphoia really bad, and I feel sad and upset. I'm hoping I can get on HRT soon but I know it'll be a long time, especially since I just came out. So I wanted to ask, how does everyone here who hasn't started HRT yet cope with chest dysphoria? Is there something I can do to maybe feel better, even just temporarily?

 
 

I want your opinion of how she looks. Do you think she looks pretty, do you think she looks cool? Both?

 

I want your opinion of how she looks. Do you think she looks pretty, do you think she looks cool? Both?

 

Yes I included beard and mustache stubble on purpose. I like my little fuzzy bits of beard and mustache and I plan to keep them even as I transition and become more feminine, though I'll likely always present and act more masc since that's what I like.

My only real source of dysphoria at the moment is towards my flat chest and the fact I lack any breasts, it makes me sad and I hope I can get on Estrogen soon so I can begin to change that.

 

cross-posted from: https://lemm.ee/post/49671489

Recently today I realized that I am in fact a trans girl. I made a post about it in [email protected] and after that I was reflecting a lot on my past, the mistakes I've made, and I realize I've made a lot of them. I've said horrible things about and to LGBTQ people, and just awful shit in general when I was younger. I was a young and stupid kid and I would say horrible things online, things I heard from other people or read online. Things I now regret and feel horrible about. I know I can never excuse any of them just because I was younger but I do deeply regret those mistakes, and I am deeply sorry I said any of those things. I know that isn't an excuse but I hope people can find it in them to forgive me for my awful mistakes and accept me as a new person.

 

Recently today I realized that I am in fact a trans girl. I made a post about it in [email protected] and after that I was reflecting a lot on my past, the mistakes I've made, and I realize I've made a lot of them. I've said horrible things about and to LGBTQ people, and just awful shit in general when I was younger. I was a young and stupid kid and I would say horrible things online, things I heard from other people or read online. Things I now regret and feel horrible about. I know I can never excuse any of them just because I was younger but I do deeply regret those mistakes, and I am deeply sorry I said any of those things. I know that isn't an excuse but I hope people can find it in them to forgive me for my awful mistakes and accept me as a new person.

 

I used to think I'm a guy, I like many masculine things like motor sports, fixing cars, playing shooters. Things that typically boys like and I have no desire to wear girly clothes or anything like that. But I've always when I was younger liked hanging out with girls more than I liked hanging out with other dudes. Maybe that's not weird but I liked their company more, like how other boys would hang out with the guys, I liked doing that but with girls.

Recently I met someone new, she's a lot like me in her interests and even her style, and I learned she's transfem and that has made me question whether I might be trans myself. I asked her to call me by she/her pronouns for a bit to see how it feels, and I got a rush of happiness when she referred to me with she/her pronouns. So now I'm not sure if I am a guy or not anymore. I don't have any discomfort towards my penis and I do think I'd miss it if it were gone, but lately I have been getting discomfort related to my chest, it feels flat and empty, and wrong. Like it should be bigger than it is. It doesn't seem normal for a guy to feel like that.

I really need help, is it normal for a guy to feel like this or does this mean I might be trans?

 

Seriously why? Discuss.online has horrible moderation and open-signups, and Lemm.ee isn't very much better. If lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works were completely nuked to avoid the moderation headache or risks from two large open servers, why aren't lemm.ee and discuss.online banned as well?

 

Seriously why? Discuss.online has horrible moderation and open-signups, and Lemm.ee isn't very much better. If lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works were completely nuked to avoid the moderation headache or risks from two large open servers, why aren't lemm.ee and discuss.online banned as well?

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