MyMulligan

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Lasting happiness? There's always going to be downs as well as ups in life. Stoicism will teach you how to handle the pitfalls in life without dwelling on them and helping you to get on in life. Buddhism will help you to understand that life is full of sorrow but that the journey is it's own reward and that joy can be found anywhere.

A perpetual state of satisfaction can be reached that's liberally peppered with happiness. Happiness is not an end goal. It's the after affect of a effortful life that invites playfulness and new experiences.

The key word here is effort. Happiness should not be the main goal. Living your values. Finding a process and journey that meets your values and challenges you slightly will bring satisfaction.

Be carful of self help books and systems. Many are designed to put you on a perpetual wheel of needing more and more books to buy and classes to take. They are money generators that will tell you they offer the golden cure. And if you didn't succeed with the system in a few months then here's part two you can buy.

I do like THE HAPPINESS LAB podcast as a starting point. There's a free Yale course too. The teaching there can get you to examine some stuff.

Be kinder to yourself but do put some challenges in your way. Happiness is not about having a placid life.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'd guess it depends on the thickness of what you are pasting. They're thin and I've only put down postcard like items. There is a double sided sticky tape out there too that's thinner. The dots are easier to manage. The tape a little messier. They both come in a self applying dispenser. I got mine off of Amazon. The tape is not temporary. You'll need to be precise your first time applying it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I discovered removable glue dots. Using them now with my Hobo.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Google and Bing search has been horrible with that for some time. Bing AI will at least bypass the crap website's for now anyway.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Watching this post for some insight as well.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Curious if someone in an abusive relationship could use this trick if their phone was being monitored. If the abuser was just monitoring them with the phone's parental controls this would work but if there was an app probably not?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm always nervous about installing an apk package into to my phone. Will Thunder ever be in the Play Store do you think?

The rumbling on the Fediverse is that Sync should be available for Lemmy in the Play store fairly soon. But maybe I'll take the plunge with Thunder before that.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Seven Samurai is an amazing movie. It set the groundwork for so much more to follow.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Harold and Maude Silence of the Lambs Thor: Ragnarok Singing in the Rain Unforgiven

Silly to hold us to five but those were the first to come to mind.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (6 children)

Jerboa does have limited use here. You just can't post anything. I used it to comment here and to up vote.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I've never understood github, compiling, and running an app/program from there. I'm at best a code monkey. Show me and the code needed at the command line and most of the time I can make it work. Can you suggest where to get started?

 

I know many instances are not upgrading until the majority of bugs and issues are resolved. In the meantime if Jerboa got upgraded (it looks nice, BTW) then it won't play nice with the older versions of Lemmy. On Saturday I discovered Connect for Lemmy inside the Google Play Store.

I figured for us who need something to read on our phones while we poop, this would be good until our instance gets updated.

Whoops. Just discovered I'm having issues posting or commenting with Connect while in my instance. I'm guessing you do have to log into an instance that's upgraded or view everything in a browser. Bummer.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I nearly spit out my drink. Relatable and funny.

 

It's yard work and the zoo for me. I hope all within the communities have a great weekend. Go socialize with those you care about. Peace.

 

I see many communities that got started in the last ten days. Sadly, some that I'm most interested in are not that active. Some are not active at all.

What are you doing to help your community? How do you go from lurking to contributing? Spreading the word?

Also, what's for breakfast?

 

Mine will depend if my wife's girl's weekend happens. If it does then I'm doing an art trail, which she would hate.

 

I mean, almost all social media has a learning curve but Lemmy is one that if you don't put in the effort you're not going to learn it and use it. It's not seamless to master.

Design for it is an offshoot of what developers made that work for them. There's a gap between that and what the lay person who grew up with phone apps are willing to put up with.

I know Lemmy will grow and develop. But there's going to be a bleed off of active users from these waves of new members. I'm hoping that the communities grow fast and that the phone app is designed with the average high school kid or octogenarian in mind.

If I wasn't a kid who grew up figuring out driver issues or the blue screen of death in Windows all of the time I may have moved on after my first couple of hours with Lemmy.

Truly. I want to see the platform grow and flourish. But it has some hurdles.

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