No, NTA. Good on you for defending yourself and working to stop hateful behavior before it got worse.
CamelliaCadabra
joined 1 year ago
Yes, wow YTA, it's one thing to have an opinion about what you think your husband should be doing, but its far worse to go out of your way to sabotage your husband's decision on how he wishes to take care of his need for food. Try supporting your husband instead of inflicting your twisted view that he is being coddled.
Yep, YTA. Whatever the dress symbolizes to you does not justify your overreaction and cruelty towards your mother in law to be.
Excel, with worksheets for: 1. purchase log with tasting/brew notes 2. Current tea inventory 3. Current cake inventory I actually wrote my own .Net app, but never use it, because it takes more effort to keep evolving it than just using Excel, but it basically opened each line from the Excel sheet and showed all the information in a more organized view with pictures which was really cool, but I make notes most days so Excel is just easier given the volume of data.
I'd go home.
The last bao zhong I enjoyed was 2022 Winter Smooth Water Baozhong from Floating Leaves. Very refreshing!
Goishicha (Japanese fermented tea)
Anji bai cha, Taiping hou kui, Huo Shan huang ya, Meng Ding gan lu, compressed Nannuo shan whites, lao cha tou
Wow, yes, YTA, what happened to you to engender such a sense of entitlement and disregard for the environment and common sense upcycling? Open your mind and learn from your wife; marriage is about mutual exchange, and you are clearly needing a wider perspective.